Posted by:
BahBahBlacki
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Date: October 23, 2012 07:15AM
I'm sure many of you relate to this particular topic. I resigned two years ago this month, and in that time, a dear family member has stopped speaking to/contacting me. We've been close since I was a child. I wasn't going to tell her for a while, but the continuous spiritual, cheesy forwarded emails of 'true' stories happening to blessed Mormons moved me to tell her.
A few months passed. I wrote back and said, is something wrong? Did you not get my email? My computer spazzes out sometimes. Her reply was Yes, I did get it, I've just been busy.
And now at the two year mark of the momentous occasion that I left TSCC, she hasn't sent a single thing since. Yes, life nips you good and hard. But I know her. A morning and night doesnt go by that she spends time emailing family and friends. I miss her, but get the hint. Maybe she just needs more time to accept it.
After all, any and all church members in my expansive family believed I would be the one to get my mother back to church. It was in my P. blessing, too. But no, I found truth. And also, I'm both happy and proud to say my relationship with my mother has been the best it has ever been my entire life. The YW leaders told me she'd be going to hell if I didn't 'bring her back'. As I explore the world I had missed out on...pfffft. See ya there, Mormons. <3
I've lost a lot leaving the church as far as connections with loved ones go...but I gained back a very, very important relationship with my greatest friend, my mother.