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The Oncoming Storm - bc
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Date: December 18, 2012 12:00PM
Welcome aboard!
I spent a lot of time both in the closet and out of the closet. There are pros and cons to both. Overall I prefer being out of the closet.
However, I have been more fortunate than most in that my family has acted very mature about this and have not attempted to re-convert me. I do think I did some things right to help facilitate that, but most of the credit goes to them. If you come out of the closet you risk not being so lucky and it having a very negative impact on the relationship.
If your husband is open to looking at things at all - here's a great place to start:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ac_fLUHiBw