Posted by:
en passant
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Date: December 27, 2012 10:51AM
If you're the host in your own home and you don't want to pray, then don't pray. If your guests expect prayer they can pray silently among themselves. If they confront you about it, find your balls.
If you're a guest in someone else's home, you would politely endure prayer, just as guests in your home should be expected to politely tolerate its absence.
Where it gets sticky is when your TBM host knowingly and passive-aggressively asks you to say the blessing. Be prepared to either decline, or deliver a blessing that suits you.
I once said the Prayer of St. Francis in response to my brother's passive-aggression, and he responded by starting to deliver his own blessing after I finished. I found my balls and told him that if he insulted me by doing so, I would leave. He stopped. I didn't get invited to dinner again for about five years, and I've never been asked to pray since.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prayer_of_Saint_Francis