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Date: December 30, 2012 03:23PM
The lead minister took written questions, responded to them, and opened each question to the congregation to respond to. He invited people to express differences of opinion if they had them. Hymns were chosen by the congregation.
Opened with the statements that "Meaningful inspiration comes through all of us equally" and "Truth without love is not truthful. Love without truth is not loving."
Evil
First question was about how to respond to evil; if everyone is really is of divine value, including people who commit horrific acts. Response was the danger in talking about evil is it turns evil into an abstraction and then into an absolute. We refuse to recognize evil in ourselves but put it all on other people. We should stop evil when we are able, although we will not be able to stop every bad thing.
[I have a lot of my own thoughts about this, but I kept them to myself since it is too big a subject to cover in a short time.]
Mental Health
Question about minister's personal struggle with depression and how he overcame it. He identified three things:
Bodywork in which he connected with his own feelings and emotions, talk therapy, and SSRIs. Suggestions from the audience included connecting with other people and living true to yourself. The comment about living true to yourself came from a lesbian member of the congregation, who said until she acknowledged her orientation and found an accepting community, she felt depressed.
Also discussed the state of mental health, that mental health has a large cultural component. The minister mentioned he had been a therapist for 12 years and you can't do therapy well without finding something good in the people you work with.
[I responded to this question with the comment that we tend to see mental health as an individual issue but it has a great deal to do with the conditions under which we live. I agree therapists cannot do good work with people in whom they cannot find something to like.]
Spiritual Practices
Skepticism is an important practice. It means believing in the things we directly experience ourselves. The danger is cynicism, which is a refusal to believe anything. On atheism: "Genuine, heartfelt atheism has long had a valued place. Anything we can see about ultimate reality is limited by our minds so anything we say about God is wrong." Many theists believe in a God who is "an infinitely perfect Santa Clause," which is "a young way to think." "Atheists have an idea of what God they don't believe in and I likely don't believe in that God, either."
The Buddhist "void" is not cold and dark. It is impersonally intelligent and loving.
Question about when the soul enters and leaves the body: "Second Thursday of the month." Any answer is highly speculative. Minister was present at the death of his mother and as she was dying he put his hand above the crown of her head and it felt as if water was flowing out. His brother, an atheist, described the same sensation and was surprised.
On UU: "We are not so cerebral as we used to be. I would have said 25 years ago they are stuck there. There is more to life than what you think about life."
Ending blessing: "Peace is not something we find, it's something we open to; love is not something we find, it's something we practice"
The meeting did not seem nearly long enough and I wish we could have continued in order to talk in greater depth. Whatever one might think of the content, the process was pretty amazing and I am happy about having been there. Crystal had expected something like a Mormon testimony meeting, but it was nothing like that. So she was pleased. It is hard to convey the feeling of being there: It felt genuinely open and relaxed.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/30/2012 03:27PM by robertb.