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Posted by: Tupperwhere ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 03:50PM

One more poll for statistics sake. There's already a thread for the median age of the average RFM'er, and the age we stopped believing. I just thought it might be interesting to see what year we quit (thinking about that in comparison to info being available online etc...) For me, it was

1997

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 03:59PM

1981 or 1982.

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Posted by: Ex-CultMember ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:03PM

Age 23 1998

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Posted by: Mia ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:04PM

Me, husband, and two kids left in 2011.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:06PM

I still believed, but left so my life could fall apart without an audience.

I realized I no longer believed in the summer of 2004--just all fell apart one day. I was 47 years old.

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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:07PM

Went inactive end of 2003 or beginning of 2004. Formally resigned in 2009.

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Posted by: amos2 ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:09PM

testimony collapsed Aug2008
resigned callings Feb2010
resigned Jun2011

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:10PM

Stopped going in 1997, resigned in 2001.

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Posted by: adoylelb ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:10PM

2002, went inactive in February of that year, and resigned in October.

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Posted by: Carol Y. ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:15PM


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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:19PM

I never left TSCC.
TSCC left me.

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Posted by: buddyjoe ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:25PM

Hmmmm… What difference does it make if you resigned from the Church or not?
They definitely don’t erase your records and they still count you in the members list.
I left 1973 told the Bishop what he can do with his Church and since than I call me not Mormon anymore.

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Posted by: Tupperwhere ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:33PM

statistics wise, I guess it doesn't really matter but I would hope that people who figure out TSCC is a cult/hoax would go ahead and resign at some point. It takes longer for some than others. TSCC will count the lice in primary if it benefits their membership records. When we as individuals "resign" I think it's more of a personal power thing. It was for me anyway.



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Posted by: Cali Sally ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 08:04PM

It didn't matter too much to me until my mother said, "Well, OFFICIALLY you are still a Mormon." I didn't want to ever hear that designation again. Now I'm OFFICIALLY not a Mormon, in case anyone wants to know and there is no doubt.

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Posted by: msmom ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:48PM


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Posted by: Just Me ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 04:59PM

2003, 9 years ago

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Posted by: spicyspirit ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:04PM

1999

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Posted by: rhgc ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:10PM

2012

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Posted by: goldenrule ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:12PM

2008

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Posted by: Madison40 ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:12PM

I left and resigned in 2009. So happy to be out of Mormonism.

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Posted by: Levi ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:14PM

I stopped going in 1999, discovered it was a fraud the next year and formal resignation after BKKKP made his sneer October 2010.

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Posted by: nickerickson ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:18PM

2006-7

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Posted by: Gazelam ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:29PM

Testimony collapsed summer of 2000 (but was on the rocks for several years before that at BYU)

Stopped wearing garments when recommend expired in September 2000

Masturbated for first time ever in October 2000 (havn't gone more than a few days without since :)

Said the F word for the first time in November 2000

New Years Resolution to stop attending church January 2001. One of only New Years Resolutions totally fulfilled. Moved into my own apartment without Mormon roomies, didn't leave a forwarding address.

First alcoholic beverage 3 days after 26th birthday in April 2001

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Posted by: joesmithsleftteste ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 05:43PM

2012. It will long be remembered as a very interesting year.

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Posted by: Heresy ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 06:01PM

'63

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Posted by: Tupperwhere ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 06:04PM

Heresy Wrote:
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> '63

Good for you! Isn't it crazy how some of us (talking about myself here) still need "therapy" even after all these years? I haven't been to church in ages but I find myself needing recovery more than ever right now. I was BIC though, so maybe that's why.

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Posted by: gannosu ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 06:14PM

I may hold the record, never attended church after leaving home in 1958, considered there may by some truth in the church until the papyrus was returned to the church in 1967-8 and reading all I could on it, especially Nibley's genius articles in the Improvement Era that never said anything. That was the end but waited until about 1995 to remove name.

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Posted by: unworthy ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 06:52PM

1960

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 06:55PM


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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 07:45PM


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Posted by: mindlight ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 08:00PM

2012
Easter Sunday



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/13/2013 08:01PM by mindlight.

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Posted by: resipsaloquitur ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 08:04PM

2009. Resigned in 2010.

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Posted by: breedumyung ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 08:09PM

1971

sent letter 1988

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Posted by: Kismet ( )
Date: January 13, 2013 08:10PM

2012 is the year I figured out that TSCC is a fraud.

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