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The Oncoming Storm - bc
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Date: January 23, 2013 05:28PM
I'm not sure if you should. But I'll leave that decision to you. I think one of the best ways is to look at things online together. This has the advantage of not pitting you directly against her and helps avoid it turning into as direct of a fight where she feels like you are attacking her directly. That way when she doubts the veracity of something you can say - that's a good question - let's dig deeper and figure it out together. (In other words try to approach it as you and she together against the evidence instead of you against her.)
Here's my recommended Issues 101 curriculum:
http://exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,758683,758683#msg-758683Intermediate curriculum:
http://www.mormonthink.comAnd my advanced curriculum (which would be following every link on the site - or just perusing for topics of interest):
http://www.mormonprobe.com--------------
IMPORTANT:
I would NOT have the reasons why you don't believe as your initial discussion. Avoid the topic like the plague. Instead worry about what this means for your relationship. Spend the time and energy re-affirming your friendship and ensuring that your change in beliefs doesn't change that.
Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 01/23/2013 05:38PM by bc.