Posted by:
ragingphoenix
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Date: February 05, 2013 08:23PM
That I can process this with. The couple of co-workers that I opened up to just said "Everything happens for a reason."
The hospital wouldn't give me any info. I asked my co-workers who have connections there "I don't want to know a name or anything else. I just want to know if the woman lived or died" And I gave the time-frame of arrival and the description of the woman. I told them what I had seen.
One co-worker who's relative works at the hospital said something to the effect of "I talked to "X" and she said they are really busy today. Did they pick her up at "B"? She was probably dead when they got there anyway. Try not to worry about it."
She knew information I didn't give her.
This is eating me alive. My wife is very very understanding and gave me menial tasks to focus on to try and get me centered. I couldn't even pick clothes out for my upcoming vacation. I just shuffled things around and forgot what I was doing.
I can't focus. I keep seeing her laying there. If she was DOA, it might have been different if I had stopped. Every second of blood/o2 deprivation to the brain matters. I calculated that I could have been working on her for about 2-3 minutes before the paramedics.
The people around her were "older". They might not have even had a cell phone, and probably didn't know CPR.
No matter what sympathetic things that could be true are posted, there is the possibility that I could have saved her. My brain can't think of anything else at the moment.
Replay Replay...
I just don't want to hear "there is a reason", and I KNOW that there is a possibility, no matter how slight, that she could be with her family right now if I had stopped.
About 40% of my brain was saying "go see". Maybe she was dead. Maybe I couldn't have helped. That is a very real possibility.
8% is better than 0. I fucked up.
Edited 2 time(s). Last edit at 02/05/2013 08:53PM by ragingphoenix.