Posted by:
CN10k
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Date: February 07, 2013 10:39PM
So I went ahead and emailed church records 1.5 weeks ago, requesting my name be removed from the records. Now, mind you, I didn't just do that for peace of mind. I haven't believed in their craziness, or any type of god since I was about 12. I'm now 20. I'm going into a field of science that relies heavily on evolution and I hope to start getting published, well at least referenced, soon. I just don't want anyone to be able to discredit my name by whipping out a list of members with my name on it. This is highly unlikely, but I can't reconcile my knowledge of science with knowing that I'm connected to a church that denies scientific facts and shames working women. So my email requested I not be contacted again, so of course my parents' bishop called me to try to dissuade me. He started out with questions about my work and school, but then of course brought up my request. He tried to insist I talk it over with my parents first, and I said that everything's already been said. Then he started asking why I wanted to do this and I explained in as little detail as possible that I don't believe in a god and I don't want to be connected to the church. Again, he urged me to talk to my parents and I said it was not necessary. He then started talking about how I was the first girl to finish my personal progress and how I was the beehive, mia maid, and laurel president and sat on the stake youth committee. I said that that was years ago. Then he suggested that I simply put myself on the no contact list. I said that wouldn't be necessary, that my mind was made up. FINALLY, he relented and agreed to remove my name. Has anyone else had a bishop be this insistent?