Posted by:
brownie
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Date: March 02, 2013 12:14PM
I have been marginalized for so long that I think my definition of respect is quite muddy...I'm not sure I know what it feels like to be respected. At the risk of sounding like a classic comedian, I don't get it from my children, from their father, tscc, parents, etc...
Which makes me the common denominator...
First, respect myself, right? What *does* that mean?
In my attempts to change the disrepectful relationship dynamics with (formerly) close friends, I.e. setting boundaries, I have managed to lose those relationships...but I'm tired of being the emotional scapegoat/whipping girl.
Suggestions? Insight? Sock it to me.