Posted by:
brownie
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Date: April 24, 2013 01:48PM
Situation: My young child's father (emotionally abusive & volatile) has taken our child to the home of a registered sex offender, a friend of father's. (For clarification: his offense was against an older-teenage child-and has not been, to my knowledge, a repeat offender.)
I do not know how much contact my child has had with this person; I do know that father has asked our child to keep information from me.
Confronting father would result in my child being punished (verbally abused) for telling mom, as well as a $hit storm directed at me. It could get *really* ugly, and I've already had my share of Family Court-style ugly.
My child should not even be ACQUAINTED with this person, as his arrest was the year my child was born.
If I believed that my child was in imminent danger, my actions would be aggressive.
I approached the school for guidance in handling the situation. "We're sorry you two are both having a hard time right now."
Um, no...it's about our CHILD.
It seems the best action is for me to anonymously report to the DOJ that this person is known to have been in the presence of a child, and get counseling for our child (which is needed anyway).
Has anyone had the experience of attempting to get their child's needs met by professionals, but being marginalized or even vilified by those professionals who are *supposed* to be able to see what is going on?
How do I approach this?
Upon reflection, I believe this is On Topic because the way I present myself (I guess) is incongruent with the strong person I know I am, but was taught to suppress--
which has a tendency to leak out the sides looking like Crazy/Angry.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/24/2013 02:00PM by brownie.