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Date: April 29, 2013 11:51PM
"Becky" is a fifteen year old young lady who is having what appears to be severe psychological and/or emotional problems.
On the surface Becky is a perceptive, fun loving ordinary teenager. She's very tall -- not as tall as I am but much taller than average so I've tried to be a big sister to her (I had no one to help me dealing with being tall when I was growing up). Unfortunately, she has a lot of other problems to deal with. She should be in high school but is still in the eighth grade and may not pass (again) this year. She does well on assessment tests but seems to be a pre-teen emotionally. Becky wants to play with nine and ten year olds instead of teens her own age and keeps referring to herself as a "kid" who wants to do "kid things." Becky will only watch cartoons like "Finding Nemo" on Nickelodeon or shows on the Disney Channel. For almost two years Becky has been ignoring her period and will not use tampons or pads (I've seen her bleeding through her jeans and acting as if nothing was happening). She also hides her bloody underwear and clothes under furniture or in the closet. Her mother is a divorced single mum who works several part-time jobs. She tries her best but work takes precedence and Becky's father is not in the picture(they divorced when Becky was very young). She's tried to talk to Becky about the facts of life but Becky will stuff her fingers in her ears or run out of the room. Most teen girls are obsessed with their appearance but Becky will not wash or clean herself and smells and does not seem to understand what people mean when they tell her she is having problems with body odour. Becky's mother has also caught her sexting and exposing herself to men via her laptop webcam on Facebook and other social networking sites.
I don't know if Becky was abused or molested (so far the answer is no) but something is wrong with this girl. She has potential and could have a life for herself if her problems could be straightened out. If any of you have any suggestions as to what sort of specialist who could possibly help her please let me know.