Posted by:
Cheryl
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Date: August 03, 2013 09:50PM
Respect needs to be earned. It isn't a given.
Mormons have said I **must** respect them because they are mormons. Not true.
I don't require Mormons to respect me for being non-mo and they have no authority to say I *must* respect them, not their underwear, their temple rituals, or their idea that I am an unworthy human being.
The same is true of polygamists. No one must respect them. I don't think they are any better than other humans because they hook up with multiple spouses and teach their children they are better than normal people who have two parents.
I think polygamy is an extremist belief. Have some cultures done it through history? I don't care.
I think what adult do is their business unless they drag kids into it.
In my opinion, an adult can have sex with a different person every day as long as they're not producing children and thinking the kids will follow that example because it isn't a good one for the children or for society.
I grew up on a polygamy compound and had to work like crazy to rise above the bad upbringing. I did it but don't wish it on any young girl.
Don't tell me this difficult result is only because a few plyg groups are "extremist." No, polygamy in modern-day America is an extreme choice. Anyone who suffers in that environment has a hard recovery learning to live in a normal non-cult world. It's a worse recovery than for those who were mainstream mormons and we know that many exmos have died because recovery was an impossibility for them.