Posted by:
Joy
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Date: August 04, 2013 05:44AM
If they have another opportunity to confront you, just say "NO" again. During my years as a TBM, I had to say "No" about thirty times, for each demand. When they would come at me with another demand, I would say "No" thirty more times. I can tell you that I never had to clean the building, never had to go on Pioneer Trek, and neither did my children. They didn't have to go to a stupid church activity on a school night, or on a Saturday, or during family-time.
Now I've resigned, my "No" covers everything in the whole Mormon cult.
The secret is to never explain! Explanations and excuses open the discussion, and give the Mormons a chance to use their well-rehearsed rebuttals.
"No, I won't be going to your church."
Why? "Because I don't believe in Joseph Smith or your church."
But if you'll just come to church, read the BOM, pray, you will believe, bla-bla. "No, I prefer to study."
They never buy the excuses that you are busy, or sick, or your family needs you, or your education or career demands your attention. Nothing is a good reason, according to the Mormons, because, for them, the cult comes first.
If they ask other questions or make accusations, just repeat, "No, I'm not going to your church."
"No, I'm not going next week, either, or ever."
"I don't believe in your religion."
We joined the Lutheran church, when we left the Mormon cult, and my son has had great success with saying, "No, I'm Lutheran."