Posted by:
brothergalileo
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Date: August 12, 2013 07:12PM
I am financially independent of my parents yet I still find them criticizing my decisions especially my financial ones (like me taking loans to pay for school, I still have to even after scholarships, financial aid, and 2-3 jobs). In reality, they have no leverage over my decisions, but in my mind, I feel like some how I still have to listen to them and if I don't they'll be able to control me somehow. How do you deal with helicopter parents? I have brought this fact up to them, that I am in my mid twenties and should still not be treated like a child, however when I use the phrase "helicopter parents" they don't see themselves as such and bring some crazy ass story up, like parents that stalk their children to/from school everyday; like they are trying to prove how "good" they are as parents and are not actually crazy helicopter parents.
TL;DR How do you still deal with helicopter parents even though you are in your mid twenties and are financially independent?