Posted by:
The 1st FreeAtLast
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Date: August 14, 2013 04:27AM
...the psychological effects of having spent years or decades in cultic Mormonism. That's not to say that using the services of an intelligent, experienced counselor wouldn't be beneficial. On the contrary, having a never-Mormon perspective can be quite helpful.
IMO, it's best to either post your Mormonism-specific psychological questions here, or find an ex-Mormon or therapist with a good understanding of the harmful effects of LDS 'programming' (there are many, unfortunately).
Re. your head-in-the-proverbial-sand husband, you'll likely find that as you move forward with your personal growth post-Mormonism, an even greater relationship gap will materialize between the two of you. Bear in mind that you're not obliged to remain in an unsatisfactory marriage. You cannot force him to take off his mental blinders and start paying attention to the MANY facts that prove that Mormonism is a demonstrable fraud.
No wonder people have been leaving the LDS Church "in droves" (see "Mormonism besieged by the modern age" at
http://uk.reuters.com/article/2012/01/30/uk-mormonchurch-idUKTRE80T1CP20120130 for details).
In Jan. 2012, ABC News in SLC reported: "The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is losing a record number of its membership. A new report quotes an LDS general authority who said more members are falling away today than any time in the past 175 years." (Ref.
http://www.abc4.com/content/news/top_stories/story/Number-of-faithful-Mormons-rapidly-declining/rvih3gOKxEm5om9IYJYnRA.cspx)
Last month, The New York Times published an intriguing piece, "Some Mormons Search the Web and Find Doubt", that may be of interest to you (ref.
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/07/21/us/some-mormons-search-the-web-and-find-doubt.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0).
The next time Mormons tell you "if only you had stayed on track with the gospel", or something similar, you can reply with: "If only the LDS Church had been truthful with me - and millions of other people - about Joseph Smith writing conflicting First Vision stories, using his hat and a rock that he believed was mystical to 'translate' the Book of Mormon, and making other men's wives, single women, and teenage girls young enough to be his daughters his polygamous wives." That should shut them up!
It can be a rocky road for people as they leave cultic Mormonism, but the journey and liberation is definitely worth the effort!