Haven't been around so much lately. I feel sorry for what has happened to your son and how he is treated by those who actually caused his suffering. I can't tell you how to deal with the church or if it is a good idea to sue the sh*t out of their filthy butts. But I hope I can give you some comforting words for we are facing a TBI right now too. Well my DH suffered a TBI about a short tim
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It was a pain when RS President into mlm crafting bs - she made some Shitty stuff each week mainly to promote her stuff. I always "loved" the gimmicky RS my forever and all time favorite will forever be the RS president who wanted us sister missionaries to hand out her "cute" tampon angels to inactive members with the Christmas party invitations. Nope I refused to do that.
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I love to cook and bake it somehow relaxes me. My most wanted dishes are original wiener schnitzel with warm potato salad Cheese porridge grounded meat soup Chilli Sweet lasagna (with Mascarpone and red berries) Salmon and spinach with homemade noodels Asparagus with sauce hollandaise and potatoes Homemade ice cream
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We had an investigator and she came to sacrament meeting. It was August and we had around 90 degrees in the morning. She wore a sleeveless dress. It even hadn't spaghetti straps just no sleeves. No big cleavage, absolutely not "immodest" - however a sister felt that she was called to end this porn shoulder spectacle and thrown an left woolen jacket from the wardrobe over her shoulders.
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I grew up in a no Mormon environment. I didn't had any mormon friends at school or even in my ward. I was the only one under 30 and over 15 for a long time. I only met other Mormons on stake activities and grew up pretty normal. Bishop felt awkward to ask about LoC during interviews and just asked once if I have anything to confess and if I think that I am virtue and worthy. I said no and yes I t
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Guilty for making out during Sunday School and every effing chance we had in the baptismal fond with an Elder when I 19/20 - he stayed for 10 (!!!) months in my ward and we were more than just friends 9 of them. He was soooo "successful" in converting people (we actually had more investigators and baptisms then,than we had ever before) and was even made Zone Leader, MP was so proud and
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For some there must be a high pressure to pop out baby after baby like if there's no tomorrow. And as a newlywed you get the pressure to fulfill your duty from family, friends, other other members and were called to serve in kindergarten to show them "what a blessing little one's are" - serving in kindergarten is the best argument to get your tubes tied. Seems to work, most of them wi
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Living in Germany and in the epicenter of carnival we are listening to carnivalmusic since last Thursday. (^_-) Alaaf!
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I just researched the largest weekly journals online "Spiegel" and "Stern", who have an online archive back to 50's or 60's. I scrolled a lot of articles, background information, witness accounts, political discussions etc. about this hijacking. No Dieter was mentioned. Not even once. Not even close. If he had an important role in this he definitely would have been mentione
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Here! I'm 29+c and husband just turned 25
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Awake and Arise in the bedroom He is Risen in the bedroom Father, This Hour Has Been One of Joy in the bedroom Do What Is Right in the bedroom The Iron Rod in the bedroom Sweet is the work in the bedroom Men Are That They Might Have Joy in the bedroom
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I was the same. I needed an extra trip with the crazy train to lala-land to finally make a decision to get off of that track. I became very active for some months, got a TR again and was called into institute teaching. (after being inactive for years it was a spiritual decision by the SP I guess...) but you can't ignore all you have learned about it in the last years and you see things differentl
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I hate it when they spam trough social media with their crap also my favorite turning a RS lesson into a mlm presentation - and after the lesson let the folks unobtrusive obtrusive know where they can bury their money. Most MLM have a cultish facet, that's why tbms are love them and can be successful with it. A lot of them went trough 18-24months of hardcore salesperson training... Mormon and MLM
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Thanks so much for all your replies. Although it's painful it helps that I am not the only one who has to experience this. No it is not easy and a pain for all of us. Sometimes I think he believes that he is the one who has to rescue his apostate siblings and his social, coffee drinking and wine adoring Mormon mother, who never went again since they closed her ward, because she doesn't travel 40k
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EX Bishop Schweinehund and the Stake President SoB. Brother Schweinehund stalked me (and this is mildly said), he harassed me. He send me awful mails, pictures and videos of himself, he wanted me to be "his other wife" for his "pleasure, he nearly destroyed me and my life, within a few weeks if his hormonterror - I was scared and full of anxiety because of this. I eventually
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I am so mad right now. My brother and his wife went to the temple and did "the work"© for my loved grandparents. They baptized, confirmed and sealed my grandparents and did "their" endowment. Not only that they've ignored the will of my grandmother, she was a believing Christian who always said this church is bogus. My sister said that they should not do it, my mom said they
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Do you belong to nms stake? I grew up in this area but they closed my homeward a few years ago. Unfortunately I am not living there anymore I miss the sea a lot. (^o^)
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She is definitely listed as child of record. Our daughter, although I am inactive and my husband has resigned and we neve announced birth officially like in newspaper (only on Facebook to our friends, of course are tbms among em) she is listed in my recordfile and also my husband (we married 2015,since he is listed there although he resigned) with dob of my daughter etc. We are living in German
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Asking out the neighbors is also a great tool for them. Right before Christmas two ladies showed up (turned out that they were RS leadership, with cookies) - we haven't been in contact with tssc for maybe a year, but I'm still listed in ldstools, Facebook etc, so if anyone has the need to get in touch there are ways to do it - we haven't been at home that day and they not only rang our doorbell l
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We all have a Flu.Well daughter and I have some cough and the sniffles but husband is in a very bad condition, because he suffers from men-flu.He will die from it or survive and become a true hero. We will see. Also we have ice rain - no one will go out if they don't have have to So we spent the time with Netflix and pizza on the couch.
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We get this invitations regularly - although we are in Europe and don't have any plans to ever attend or even send them a gift from their target or BBB list (we don't even have target or BBB here!) Mostly from those who served here and they become smarter - a lot of them now also having an amazon wish list to loot some gifts.
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As far as I can say it is a special Mormon thing to gush that hard. And they do it among their own. A so sweet we know us for 2 month but we ate going to get married pic makes easily 400-500 likes and causes tons of sappy comments. And you are the one who wins the Internet when you can provide a video of the most intimate and private moments like the proposal. The more it makes a non Mo cringe th
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And not to forget that he sents Adam not only clean shaven in his face But also his chest is hairless - maybe that's why Eve is showing no body hair too, because she was taken from Adam hairless, waxed body. Or there simply were no body hair in Paradise and it's also part of the cast out to harden our lives.Who knows? It all will make sense in the afterlife, of course!
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Yes what a sacrifice he made. He gave away his effing shoes and an effing suit. Its not that he has a bunch of them, paid by the money he got (ill-gotten with false promises) from faithful saints. He could've easily buy suits and shoes for the whole eastern Germany congregation in the Inter-Shop from the money that really poor people had blown in his A$$. Are we not all beggars? Have these octo
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We just had a mormon/nonmormon/exmormon wedding two weeks ago and I was terrified beforehand. My sweet husband is an ex his family is ubertbm, my mom is a jack, my Lil bro is an uberRM, my sis a lesbian with a girlfriend an I am not resigned from church yet and we ha an 15 month old out of wedlock daughter. Plus I am a german, husband is from the US, he is 24 and I am 30+.... so a nice mix isn't
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Funfact: It is literally the same smell everywhere around the world. I was surprised when I came into the first church building on my mission and it smelled the same like home. Same goes for the bathroom. They all have the same nasty odor. So it must be something inside the units. Even after they renovated the building of my ward the smell came trough again immediately.
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Things are getting funny when eager TBM parents name their kids after BoM characters and for sure we spell and pronounce it german. Your mocking and victim of bulling status is granted. I always thought really how can parents name their kid MORONi - and don't feel bad about? Isn't that obvious to them? However thanks for the 2nd link - lmao
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It may be a lower number in total but our ward has the highest baptism rate they've ever seen . Unfortunately they dunked around 25 people in 2015 and already 6 since January #7 and 8 are going to be dunked tmr. #9-15 are scheduled for April. With this said, all of their convertees are refugees from Syria/Iran and Africa. And of course there are tons of them waiting to get baptized. They &qu
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I am skeptical about the crisis acting thing. It smells too much like conspiracy theories but he is already under LDS PR management who scheduled his interviews and probably also provided him a script what he is allowed and expected to say. What about the InjuriesI don't know but I suffered from a very geavy sunburn on my face that already popped out bubbles - I couldn't move and speak until I w
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