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6 years ago
abby
Nursery was always a cesspool of at least two little kids who should have stayed home. I love the idea of the moms being responsible for their child. Once their little darlings are primary age, they can go to Relief Society and move from the nursery. Ideally, it would be a trade off with the dads (if they are active), but it's the Mormon church. It seemed like whenever I moved to a new ward, i
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6 years ago
abby
I wonder about the two missionaries who were from Idaho (brother and sister). Their mom, dad, and two siblings died from carbon monoxide poisoning. Different situation, but still wonder. If I remember right, one sibling came home for the funeral and another did not.
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6 years ago
abby
I haven't heard them claim a certain percentage. Most know the numbers are low but it's because only a select few can handle being a member of the one true church. That's what I've heard.
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6 years ago
abby
I didn't realize it was General Conference weekend until a TBM relative told me. I had to google who replaced Monson.
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6 years ago
abby
Hell, I don't see them in Utah!
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6 years ago
abby
Good summary. Was there an explanation of this "ministering"? It seemed quite vague. It reminds me of when they lowered the mission age. A TBM family member told me all excited and my first question was why? What was their explanation? They had no answer.
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6 years ago
abby
Former EQ President will be in charge of keeping the High Priests awake during Sunday School.
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6 years ago
abby
If it's proven he has Lamanite blood, then President Benson (was it him?) prophecy is fulfilled. He has become white and delightsome!
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6 years ago
abby
My experience when active was the men rarely did home teaching. I've had VT's more on than off where I currently live despite the no religious soliciting sign. They found a way around it, they mail me stuff and leave treats at my door. I don't like the idea of this ministering program. In the past, I was the problem of four people. I hope to hell it isn't a lot of ward members pouncing on the
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6 years ago
abby
They may get there with the decrease in membership. I live in the Moridor and I've been shocked at the young age of bishops being set apart.
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6 years ago
abby
My experience was most men didn't do their assignments. I had one HT in over 10 years at my current residence. He was actually a good guy who actually would do anything to help out. The women seemed to do slightly better. I told the VT's to stop coming. Every time new ones are assigned, the cycle continues. I DO NOT like this idea of ministering.
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6 years ago
abby
Shit. I predict love bombing to happen in the next month. Luckily, the members have short memories and too much stuff to do. It won't last.
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6 years ago
abby
But they aren't black. That will happen in the next General Conference when one of the 15 drops dead. They have to slowly introduce diversity.
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6 years ago
abby
Hell no. They will probably still want their 10% membership dues to go to the good place.
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6 years ago
abby
"But it's also important to not confuse the legal and ecclesiastical lines. Attorneys are doing the legal work, and that has contributed substantially to what we understand about this case. But ecclesiastical decisions about Church members remain in the hands of local leaders, whose responsibility it is to determine how to minister to, discipline and care for the members in their stewardship
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6 years ago
abby
They are nothing but a fucking Harvey Weinstein in the tactics they employed.
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6 years ago
abby
I wanted to add I know of one family who had to deal with their "priesthood worthy" father's years of horrendous emotional abuse. I know one child did go to the bishop and nothing was done.
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6 years ago
abby
I found this out years later from the daughter of the abuser. Her father was in the Bishopric and he molested one of her sisters. He was allowed to remain in his calling until he was dealt with legally. It didn't matter his marriage ended and it was obvious he was the perpetrator. How this woman (sister of the abused) remains a member is hard for me to believe. I found out a relative of my hus
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6 years ago
abby
Don't they have porn in their hotels too? Like pay per view or something?
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6 years ago
abby
I don't think most people on a local level knew about the depravity of those two men. It isn't until you get to the upper level positions they HAD to have known.
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6 years ago
abby
I had to Google them. Two non-whites. There's the historical they were hinting about. #totallyblessed
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6 years ago
abby
It's a relief I know nothing about them. The more removed from the church, the better I feel.
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6 years ago
abby
There were times as a TBM I let a few words slip. Now that I know it's false, I love swearing. SO MUCH! :)
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6 years ago
abby
I didn't know anything about Holy Week as a TBM. Now that I'm atheist, I could not care less. It's all religious bullshit.
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6 years ago
abby
How can members ignore these facts? Even as a TBM, I would have been deeply saddened and my shelf would be to the breaking point. :( I forgot. After I left they were told to ignore the truth if it is hurtful.
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6 years ago
abby
It's like watching a bad teaser commercial for an upcoming TV series. I bet it will be the most dramatic rose ceremony ever.
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6 years ago
abby
Even when I was TBM, I didn't pay attention to other positions to people past the top fifteen.
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6 years ago
abby
On purpose? I think most times not. But when you are white (most are) have a penis and the priesthood in a patriarchal religion it's natural to belittle because they "know better". They receive revelation for you because who would know better than them?
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6 years ago
abby
He probably received a second endowment. How does that work?
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