Judith Martin,* who wrote a column for many years (and books) as "Miss Manners," was asked how to respond to a racial or other such offensive joke or remark. It's impossible to capture her voice, but it was sort of (*long, awkward pause*), then, "uhhh-....HUH!," with the "HUH!" simply riddled with sarcasm, voice dropping sharply downward at the very end of the brief
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