I don't disagree, but why add insult to injury. End the marriage because he's not happy. Or tell her he's not happy, unhappy enough to leave, and see if she agrees to a realistic solution, or to separation. That is the kind option, it gives her some control, it lays out the issues and it's based on the reality of the relationship, a situation they both created. He's unhappy, that's the problem. J
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