So I had a new girlfriend over last night to make dinner with her and have a lowkey night.

TBM roommate has his girlfriend over every night at the place to study for grad school because it's quiet.

I introduce new girlfriend to both of them. Body language was unwelcoming and judgmental. We both laughed about how awkward they are.

After she leaves, TMB roomie says that his girlfriend heard us kissing loudly. Kinda shrugged it off but the more I think about it, the more I get pissed. Who the hell are they to judge? And how is this different from when they make out all the time.

It's not my fault that he's going to be a 40 year old virgin.

Jealousy reared its ugly head. lol

I'd be pissed, too.

Did you see the post about the girl who gave another girl in the BYU library a note about how "low cut" her shirt was?

Mormons truly seem to be the nosiest people who also think they have a right to monitor everyone's behavior.

I think if he says one more thing, I'm just going to say "I thought you were better than that passive aggressive behavior."

If he's not sure what I mean, I will look at him and "I'm not used to 36 year olds dudes giving a crap about who and how I kiss, especially if its a hot girl. Plus Im not sure why your girl is listening to us kiss behind two closed doors."

I hate how much this is annoying me.

Either ignore him or call him out.

Next time, put on a looped porn soundtrack, noticable but not too loud, sneak out the window, and enjoy your night. The prudes will not want to barge in while you are "going at it" all night and they will be unbelievably jeolous. Since the idiot is a virgin he will have his expectations for sex permanently damaged as well, thinking he should go for hours just as the looped soundtrack.

that is annoying..ugh, i hate how judgmental they are towards anyone who is not of their kind, like we're all evil and just being around us will turn them into chain smoking alcoholic sex fiends.

it's also very creepy that they pay so much attention to you and your GF kissing.

I can't stand that sickening, wet, sloppy, smacking sound some people make when they kiss. I think it's part of misophonia, but that sound drives me nuts. When I see people going in for a kiss while I'm watching TV, I dive for the remote to mute it before I'm subjected to that sound. Gives me a shudder just thinking about it.

So maybe that's what the problem was. I don't care if you have orgies in your room with circus clowns and billy goats, I don't want to hear it, see it, or smell it. I'm no prude, but keep that stuff to yourself.

I fast forward through kissy parts too. I don't like it either.

Have sex with her next time this happens and see if they notice...

Loud sex.

Tell him that was just a prelude to the humping like rabbits you will hear next time.

Fair warning......

######Adult######

Get a shirt that says

"Kiss me like you love me and fuck me like you hate me" and see how that flies.

..about their possible voyeuristic problem.

This is a great idea....what would be the offense that I could say he should go to the bishop for? Gossipmongering? Focus on potentially deviant behavior? Or how about...desparately needing to get laid?

They certainly seem worried about the OP's sex life. lol!

oh hey, voyerism is all fine and dandy, if you like who's watching you !!! :)