Posted by:
Tahoe Girl
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Date: October 09, 2010 02:13AM
I can't put enough exclamation points on that!!!!!!!!!
I've been following your story since you first came here. Get the divorce done and out of the way. He continues to play on your emotions. He continues to emotionally abuse you. He continues to control you. He continues to wear you down, causing you to question yourself and your decisions. He continues to manipulate you. Put a stop to it now.
HE WILL NEVER CHANGE. NEVER. NEVER. NEVER.
And you can bet he hasn't stopped sleeping around with other women.
Change the locks on your house and allow him no access. Someone else can put the kids to bed. If he absolutely must be there, make sure that your computer is off and that he doesn't know your password to log on. But he really should have no reason to be there, especially if you're not there.
Your children's hearts may break but, rough as this may sound, that's life and they'll deal with it. It's better than you sticking around with this guy who has done so much over these many years to hurt you. You will be SO MUCH BETTER OFF WITHOUT HIM. It will make a big difference in you, which in turn will make a big difference for your children. I've been there, done that, and although my husband was not as rotten as yours, it was pretty bad for me emotionally which has greatly affected my children.
Please, please, PLEASE read every word at these two sites.
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/manipulator/emotional_abuse.shtmlhttp://www.youarenotcrazy.com/I know I'm blunt, but I care about you and want you to be happy. Take it from a 51 year old woman who spent 25 years in an emotionally abusive marriage.
Keep posting here for continued support. We're all behind you :)
TG