Posted by:
dowahdiddy
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Date: March 08, 2011 02:48PM
So I am a little newish here... but I really enjoy the views, opinions, and experiences that you guys share on here. Maybe hopefully ya'll can give me a little bit of advice on my current situation.
I am married civilly to my TBM husband and we have two great kiddos together. When we got married, I was still trying very hard to be a good little TBM wife. I really was trying...not just for him. He knew that I was not ready to be sealed in the temple and married me with the hopes that someday I would be.
Well...I decided a few months ago that that day will never come because I was tired of trying. I was tired of going to keep the peace. I couldn't stomach it or believe anymore. He is out on deployment right now so it is easy to just not go and brush over the "what did you do today?" Sunday conversation.
My question is how do I go about explaining this to him? More importantly, how do I explain that not only do I never want to participate, I don't want our children to either? Help!