Posted by:
forestpal
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Date: November 29, 2014 04:25PM
I will never understand how someone who knows Mormonism is a cult can keep their own children imprisoned in it.
Those BYU kids will marry Mormons in the temple, and be trapped for life, on the same threat of possible divorce if they discover the fraud and leave. These parents both don't seem to care that they are perpetuating the fraud from one generation to the next.
I didn't have much "backbone," but when the Mormon leaders kicked and shoved my children, trespassed into our home and dragged them to meetings, I became assertive, like any mother in nature. When I discovered the lies and the made-up threats, it was a no-brainer. I broke the cycle of abuse, begun by our polygamous Mormon ancestors. The ancestors were the "apostates" when they left their original religion to join their neighbor's scam sex-cult. I'm proud of rescuing my children.
What "reputation" do this couple's children have? Are they good followers? Slaves to a cult? My children and I all resigned from the Mormon church, and they all graduated from the U of Utah, and they always had an excellent reputation. They are honest, loving, law-abiding, polite, genuine, hard-working, true to themselves. They married good people, and are happy. Yes, the Mormons gossiped about them, and tried to slander them, but my kids had non-Mormon friends, that they still have. One has a successful business with two friends as partners. They married friends, and have good marriages that aren't in danger crumbling under the pressure of TSCC. They keep their promises, because their word is golden.
Your friends are wrong to think that the Mormon church helps to create good families and raise superior children. Quite the opposite.
This man needs to think more of his children. He isn't hiding from anyone, in the back, fiddling with his electronic toy. He is already marginalized, because he doesn't have a prestigious calling. His children see a man with little integrity, who is afraid of the truth, and afraid of the cult. Half in and half out. In limbo. They probably don't respect him, except that he is paying their tuitions. Believe it or not, this can be more stressful than leaving, and can ruin your health.
You are a good friend. There's little you can do. Maybe you can send them the New York Times headline article about the Mormon essays.