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Posted by: quinlansolo ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 11:14AM

There are some that crawl under the skin sometimes; like....
"Most Ex_Mo's post here are sexists"....
I haven't seen an individual who isn't sexist yet, they might not overtly display it but they all are....
It is Dawkins who shamelessly exposed "Selfish Gene" and ever since they are trying to nail him.

And yes, I am sexist...I can't help it.

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Posted by: BFP ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 11:19AM

My wife used to say that I was the sexiest thing since Burt Reynolds. These days she's just happy to see that I usually wipe the morning breakfast off my face.

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Posted by: odin ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 09:09PM

That's called lunch.

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Posted by: dogzilla ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 12:01PM

No, I disagree that ALL people are sexist. I do agree that you are, but I also disagree that you can't help it. I think you could help it, if you wanted to. But I don't think you GAF.

That's okay. It takes all kinds. You still often post things of value here, so I just try to filter out the sexist bits. I'll call you on it if it's really egregious, and right there is your opportunity to learn, empathize, and possibly change your behavior (which is why I call it out when I see it, and by "it" I mean sexism that works in either direction). But I don't really believe that you are terribly motivated to not be sexist. Why should you be? Male privilege is working out for you quite well. No reason to think of and have compassion for the other half of the population. If it's not a problem for you, it's not a problem, amirite?

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 12:04PM

That's some pretty lazy reasoning there, OP.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 12:17PM

Here's my contribution to dumb comments:


"Everyone who is rational and sane is an Elitist."
- - Vice Admiral Schmidtte von Helsing-Bitte

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Posted by: Dafuq ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 12:25PM

Preach!

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 12:28PM

quinlansolo Wrote:
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> I can't help it.

And you can't hurt it either. Just thought this kind of comment was what you were going for with this thread.

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Posted by: anonforthisexmorm ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 01:26PM

Yep, most people are sexist; we do live in a patriarchal society, after all. Don't agree that you can't help it, though. People do all the time. If you can't that's fine but it's your own choice.

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Posted by: icanseethelight ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 01:35PM

If you women (and that Jenner person) would just submit and accept your role, we wouldn't be having these silly conversations.

:)

I don't accept that everyone is sexist. Sweeping generalizations are just that, sweeping and general. And which set of rules are we using to define of sexist?

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Posted by: Dafuq ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 03:15PM

Ha, sweeping!

Women should be sweeping...

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:15PM

+1 on the "sweeping generalizations." Unless I make them of course--that's different.

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:06PM

Speaking of things that get under the skin, and the fact that you mention you haven't seen anyone who isn't sexist yet, you made me think. Hmmmnnn, I often see people forgetting that sexism is a double edged sword--a two way street--a two headed monster . . . Am I forgetting any? The ying has a yang? That'll do.

I thought you would open up a bigger can of worms with your light hearted, self-deprecating post quinlansolo. I'm glad not. I feel like most of us are just stumbling through and don't mean any harm to anyone.

Like Mormons though, sometimes we see what we want to see even if it isn't there at all.

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Posted by: Devoted Exmo ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:09PM

I just really love your posts, Blue. Can I call you blue?

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:12PM

Call me Blue. All my best friends do. And thank you.

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Posted by: newtothis ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:25PM

Not sure that's what he meant...pretty sure he meant that he's a misogynist and knows it...

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Posted by: quinlansolo ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:35PM

Only an imbecile cannot discern it.
Read "Selfish Gene"

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Posted by: blueorchid ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:41PM

I just watched Richard Dawkins the Selfish Gene. Fascinating the way he explains it. Thank you.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: June 11, 2015 10:35PM

I think the female RfMers are sexyists.

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