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Posted by: ExPapist (nli) ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 08:02PM

It may be just me, but these photos take my mind to a weird place.
Any Mormon connection?

http://www.bbc.com/culture/story/20151021-purity-balls-the-girls-who-pledge-abstinence

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Posted by: Anonandon ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 09:25PM

There are 5 and 7-year-olds pictured. Wut. :|

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 09:28PM

And they pledge their virginity to their fathers until they marry. But of course there's no purity balls for boys.

@ The OP- These tend to be an evangelical or fundie type of event. Colorado Springs is a Mecca for this sort of activity.

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Posted by: catnip ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 02:41AM

Why doesn't anybody seem to care about BOYS keeping their wicks stowed? By definition, that's HALF the problem.

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 08:35AM

+1

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 09:53PM

These infuriate me. Hell, I'm mad a lot these days. Also, the pictures look like prom or engagement pictures, sick.

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Posted by: Imbolc ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:14PM

Yeah, some of the poses look rather "intimate". Um...makes you wonder...shiver. So gross.

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:19PM

It makes me think of these pictures with Warren Jeffs and his child bride:
https://www.tumblr.com/search/merrianne%20jessop

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Posted by: scarecrowfromoz ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 11:24PM

Exactly my thoughts.

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Posted by: scmd ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 03:38AM

I thought exactly the same thing, Brandywine, about the pictures reminding me of Warren and his child brides.

brandywine Wrote:
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> It makes me think of these pictures with Warren
> Jeffs and his child bride:
> https://www.tumblr.com/search/merrianne%20jessop

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 08:39AM

I think extreme religion is all the same, that's why we can see the similarities.

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Posted by: Siobhan nli ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 10:21AM

Gawd he looks like a fish on ice.

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Posted by: seekyr ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 01:35PM

+1
But I'm guessing that they didn't really know how to "set up" a proper father-daughter pose, and just used the standard prom/wedding type poses.

Still, most of them made me feel uncomfortable. Take your hands off her hips, Dad. Don't use the picture with the closed eyes. Don't wrap your arms all the way around.

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Posted by: Doubting Thomas ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:02PM

I possess two of these thanks to a product called "Comfy Boys."

No joke. Clean. Dry. Comfy (of course) and PURE!

http://www.comfyboys.com/Store/

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:08PM

Lol!

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Posted by: axeldc ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:26PM


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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:29PM

True :)

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:39PM


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Posted by: Anon Dunn ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 10:42PM

I have purity 'balls' after I wash them in the shower.

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 11:19AM

Lol!

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Posted by: Plaid n Paisley ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 11:33PM

Along the same line: “CERTIFICATES OF PURITY”

"By now you have likely heard about the increasingly viral story of Brelyn Bowman and her father, Pastor Mike Freeman. Pastor Freeman glowingly shared on social media the fact that his daughter presented to him, on her wedding day, a “Certificate of Purity.” Brelyn wrote on Instagram that she “present[ed] a certificate of purity to [my father] signed by my doctor that my hymen was still intact.” This fact — that Brelyn has an intact hymen — is the evidence used to demonstrate that she preserved her “purity” until her wedding day."

https://homeschoolersanonymous.wordpress.com/2015/10/20/what-do-certificates-of-purity-communicate-to-sexual-assault-survivors/

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 21, 2015 11:45PM

Good lord. I would be mortified if my dad asked or talked about my hymen! Are we living in the Crusades? Let's just give out chastity belts and call it good.

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Posted by: Ex-Sis ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 02:51AM

Why not a tattoo?, the certificate and anatomy. Then daddy pats her on the head and says, "Good dog, I mean daughter." It's all so incest-vibe.

Abstinence only ed is a proven failure. Kids should have more, accurate info, so they are prepared for every situation. Ignorance is irresponsible, and can be dangerous.

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Posted by: Anonymous User ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 02:15PM

What kind of fucking unscientific bullshit is that? Most girls' hymens are gone by the time they're in their mid-teens. It just disintegrates.

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Posted by: lurking in ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 03:08AM

These images deserve their own category on the "Awkward Family Photos" site:

http://awkwardfamilyphotos.com/

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 08:36AM

+1

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Posted by: angela ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 03:21AM

Those pics make me wanna throw up.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 05:23AM

Taking photos of fathers pawing over their young daughters is sick.

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Posted by: rutabaga ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 10:11AM

Half of the photos have some sort of phallic symbol in the background. Flagpole, water tower, oil pump.

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Posted by: tig ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 11:07AM


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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 11:19AM

Bahaha! I love ACDC.

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Posted by: rationalist01 ( )
Date: October 22, 2015 05:27PM

The cult of virginity, the girl belongs to her father as property, the reason she must remain "pure" is so that dad may collect the bride-price. All biblical. All bullshit.

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Posted by: dogzilla ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 10:01AM

You know. I was just looking at this thread title in the list and I had an idea.

At Christmas, I make several hundred cookies, package them up into little assorted goody bags, and personally deliver them to friends on the Solstice. Last year, I made rum balls that I'd covered in chocolate and I called them "Satan's Choco Salty Balls."

I think this year, I'm going to make vanilla cookie balls with vodka or some white liquor and maybe douse them in white chocolate and powdered sugar. Then I'ma call them Purity Balls.

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 10:05AM

I think Whipped Cream Vodka might work!

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Posted by: brandywine ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 02:17PM

Yum!

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Posted by: bordergirl ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 10:55AM

Isn't it incredible the lengths to which men-controlled society will go to control and limit the sexuality of girls and women.

I think gender-specific chastity belts would be a great seller!

It could be marketed as a viable alternative to female genital mutilation!

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Posted by: Myron Donnerbalken ( )
Date: October 23, 2015 01:26PM

I looked at this last night. All I could say was, "Creepy." And where are the guys in all this? Typically male driven stuff, this. It's all the women's fault, isn't it?

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