Posted by:
shadowofadoubt
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Date: March 13, 2016 03:15PM
It was rough. About a hundred times worse than I even dared to expect. And I expected it to be rough.
I got every canned Mormon response. I felt like I was expressing myself very well and VERY politely. Maybe that's why they stepped all over me. I don't know.
I didn't think I would be asked to explain myself in so many different ways. I wasn't prepared for the interrogation or the anger.
I am glad I did it. I am glad that I don't have an entire section of my life that is veiled in secrecy.
But I can say with certainty that I wish I never had to do this. When they asked me (while I was crying) if this was making me happy, I wish I could have told them how happy I would be if I didn't have a completely Mormon family! If I didn't have to ruin my relationships with everyone in my life in order to find happiness. THAT would make me very happy! But yes, it causes me pain to see others feel pain. I'm human. If my change in belief didn't cause my entire family to treat me like the plague, I would be the happiest I've ever been. But it does. And they do. So the reality is that right now, it really sucks.
I'm hoping these emotions will soften. Time will tell.