Posted by:
Itzpapalotl
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Date: December 05, 2016 05:59PM
Just what the research reports. Facts are not jerky. It sounds like you were involved in abusive relationships, not consensual acts. People have all kinds of preferences and as long as it's safe, sane, and consensual, it's fine. I'm sorry that you were abused over and over, it's not ok to be put through that, but that doesn't mean people in the scene are always abusive or mentally/emotionally ill.
At the risk of bringing more pain to you, did you and your exes ever sit down and discuss a scene and what you were willing to do and not do before engaging in one? Because if a Dom isn't doing that, they don't know what they're doing or maybe they really do and just want to hurt someone. People who are new or unfamiliar with the scene and the rules are usually easy prey to abusive wannabe doms.
https://www.google.com/webhp?sourceid=chrome-instant&ion=1&espv=2&ie=UTF-8#q=people%20in%20bdsm%20have%20the%20healthiest%20sex%20livesEdited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/05/2016 06:03PM by Itzpapalotl.