Posted by:
Eric K
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Date: December 13, 2016 04:55PM
This is something Kirby should read after this past Sunday's article. The amount of damage the Mormon church does to people is incalculable.
Here are some excerpts from the end of the story. It is 38 pages long. It did not fit on the bb:
http://www.exmormon.org/The-Story-of-Leaving-Mormonism-12-7-2016.pdf"...Imagine losing every bit of your culture: your daily routine, the way you spend holidays, the way you make decisions about your money and your time, your family and friends, your position in your community, and most importantly your thoughts, ideas, fears, successes, failures, beliefs, and every aspect of your personality. It’s like waking up with amnesia. You have no point of reference any more. You have never learned how to have a real relationship with a person, because you have always been assigned relationships. You have a hard time conversing with people because the church was always on the tip of your tongue, and the subject of every conversation...
The RfM helped me in so many ways. I found out I was not alone. I found out that there were people suffering far worse than I was. I learned about all of the inconsistencies of the church, and where to read more about them. I learned that I had a voice. I learned that although I have rejected Mormonism, it is part of my persona, and that it will always be with me, whether I like it or not.
I have been a lurker and sometimes poster for over 20 years now. I skip over the doctrinal stuff most of the time, because for me, it can’t get any “falser”. I go now for the humor mostly, and for the camaraderie. I love to laugh at the whole Mormon genre, about boring sacrament meetings, hymns we hate, temple garments, funeral potatoes, and all the other crazy things we did because we thought God wanted us to do it that way. There is not another person in my real life (though I know my husband tries) that can understand the pain behind the humor. So I go to the RfM, where there are a wholebunch of people who get the humor…and understand the pain...."
edit: She requested her board name be added. Will be in the final version: applesauce
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/14/2016 11:59AM by Eric K.