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Posted by: koriwhore ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:01PM

My conscience would not allow me to continue subscribing to bogus 19th Century racist myths, after DNA evidence debunked them.

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Posted by: L Tom Petty ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:06PM

I didn't want to be a chump.

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Posted by: koriwhore ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:33PM

Is that something you'd say to somebody you knew, respected and/or admired?



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Posted by: edzachery ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:09PM

I could no longer align myself with an organization whose very foundation was built by an adulterous, lying, conniving sexual pervert who was banging 14 year old girls and "marrying" other mens' wives.

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Posted by: koriwhore ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:38PM

Thats my attitude, on the internet, but in real life, I've got good friends who are Mormon, who are fully aware of every dirty rotten deed committed by JS and BY, yet they still sing the praises of a rapist, and send their kids on Missions to go convert the world to thus bogus, institution of bigotry.
I dont get what makes them so different from you and me.

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Posted by: fossilman ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:11PM

I left because it is bereft of truth and offers no positive value for being associated with it.

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Posted by: koriwhore ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:40PM

True.
If it were true no sacrifice would be too much.
Since it is patently false, any sacrifice is too much.

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Posted by: Ohdeargoodness nli ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:12PM

A total breakdown in trust after the poop stone was revealed and they revised the "translation" process to include the rock in the hat-!

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Posted by: koriwhore ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:47PM

Interesting.
I really started losing trust after reading Under The Banner of Heaven.
I lost all trust in the Brethren when I read Steve Benson's 'Why I Left".
I should have lost all faith in thenbwhen they changed the temple ceremony and took out all the suicidal oaths they told me were required for exaltation.
Then removed for no reason, with no explanaion whatsoever.

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Posted by: getbusylivin ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:18PM

I no longer needed external validation.

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Posted by: liesarenotuseful ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:19PM

It's all a lie.

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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:22PM

liesarenotuseful Wrote:
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> It's all a lie.

Yep, and evidence clearly shows so.

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:45PM


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Posted by: Jonny the Smoke ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:27PM

I cannot live the life I am intended to live within the prison of mormonism.

This was my thinking at about 6 or 7 years old.....the thought of a life inside mormonism scared the bejeebus out of me.

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Posted by: BYU Boner ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:28PM

I gained a broader worldview, and Mormonism became incompatible with it.

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Posted by: Babyloncansuckit ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:39PM

It's a demonstrably false and harmful cult. Or religion. Whatever.

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Posted by: Visitors Welcome ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:43PM

(So I reckoned I had better things to do than make-work and meetings about meetings.)

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Posted by: hopefulhusband ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:43PM

family...isn't it about time? (got tired of the church taking ALL my time away from my young family)

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Posted by: seekyr ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:45PM

I found its ultra-conservative, gender-biased, racist, homophobic views to be totally incompatible with my own more liberal views.

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Posted by: anon10011101 ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:48PM

I will NOT bow my head and say yes to anyone.

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Posted by: generationofvipers ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:52PM

I left because I saw the unrepentant damage it does to people and families that don't fit into its paradigm.

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Posted by: dodo ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 04:58PM

I can't believe in a kind and loving Father in Heaven who loves each of his children and yet allows them to inflict so much pain & suffering to each other as if it were nothing.

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Posted by: spottedotter ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:01PM

In my experience the real answers to big-league questions have always been more interesting than the bogus ones mormonism offers.

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Posted by: baura ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:06PM

They demanded I pretend it's real.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:12PM

The Gerontocracy gave me reason to believe what my gut had been telling me for a while.

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Posted by: jacob ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:14PM

I got tired of pretending it didn't matter.

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Posted by: CTRringturnsmyfingergreen ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:22PM

I'm 16 and I want to have sex with the girls at school.

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Posted by: Exmoron ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:29PM

A fraud convicted, pedophilic, and polyandrous founding prophet,

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Posted by: kvothe ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:35PM

Because even if it's true, it's silly.

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Posted by: adoylelb ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:35PM

I wasn't raised to be a doormat, so I didn't fit in with the Stepford Wife ideal.

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Posted by: jacob ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:41PM

I was looking at permanent damage to my neck because of the way I fell asleep during S&M.

I decided that an eternity in hell was better than three hours at church.

I couldn't kick my porn addiction so I decided to kick my guilt addiction.

It turns out that I didn't leave them, they left me.

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Posted by: michaelsa ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:45PM

can't pretend they aren't.

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Posted by: MandyElle ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 05:56PM

I was over strangers inviting themselves over once a month to judge me.

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Posted by: CrispingPin ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:03PM

The Bible, the BoM, the D&C, and the PoGP (I won't waste my time with "scripture" ever again).

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Posted by: Lethbridge Reprobate ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:07PM

I hated being pestered by a TBM asshole who kept invoking the "your Dad would be so happy if you came back to church (a place I hadn't given a fuck about in decades) and brought your wife". He had no fucking clue about the loving respectful relationship I had with my dear father. Something he is lacking with his own children.

RB



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Posted by: hausfrau ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:22PM

I didn't feel that I could like an authentic life.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:27PM


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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:38PM

I don't like it when people pee on me and tell me it is rain.

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Posted by: oxymormon ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:40PM

I am homosexual.

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Posted by: Mr. Happy ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 06:42PM

After giving it my best try for 40 years, it just didn't work for me.

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Posted by: [|] ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 07:11PM

It's all bullshit.

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Posted by: gatorman ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 07:59PM

50 years of trying and couldn't find any lasting truth....
Gatorman
8-4
8-3

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Posted by: flash ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 08:00PM

I had done all the things that were required of me and the promised blessings never materialized, as prayers were never answered, priesthood blessing given or received did nothing, and Council from the Brethren always produced the opposite effect of that which was promised, so NOTHING EVER WORKED, period.

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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 08:12PM

I no longer wanted my name to be associated with that organization.

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Posted by: Jimbo ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 08:13PM

Racist teachings and people and services bored me to tears

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Posted by: eagleapostate ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 08:32PM

I had more meaningful things to do in my life than belong to a religion based on a fantasy of a 14 year old adulterating snake oil seller.

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Posted by: alikat ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:32PM

Because I found out that the whole thing is a sham and I couldn't continue to live a lie.

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Posted by: Hockey Rat ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:54PM

Mine at first,was because I hated always being put on the spot when asked to give the prayer or read in RD or gospel doctrines class. I just get very nervous and have a hard time. I'm always embarrassed to say " no". I've been like that since grade school.
I finally stopped going when we moved out of state, but still read the church magazines and books. It wasn't until I came here ,and found out through the Internet, church teachings that I never knew existed, especially JS, and different versions about everything. Hockey

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Posted by: angela ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:58PM

Didn't believe in it's core and foundational doctrines=I wasnt Mormon anymore

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Posted by: cftexan ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 09:59PM

I didn't agree with pretty much the entire Proclamation on the Family.

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Posted by: presleynfactsrock ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 10:01PM

I saw what action the cult took when someone I love needed help - they took the deplorable road that benefited the cult and couldn't care less for those they left in deep pain on the side of the road.

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Posted by: elderpopejoy ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 10:08PM

Blew 'em off upon learning that Masonic-Illuminist agitators in old New England had conspired to set her afoot along with many similar church-fronts (see carvings on the SL Temple walls).

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Posted by: Ex-CultMember ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 10:16PM

I studied Mormonism Shadow or Reality on my mission in order to be able to refute the arguments of anti-Mormons or "misguided" non-Mormons who heard anti-Mormon arguments. I realized the antis were actually the ones telling the truth and my testimony collapsed.

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Posted by: bornagainpagan ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 10:34PM

I can do it in one word.

Hypocrisy

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Posted by: Atrus ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 11:24PM

It kept me in ignorance of God's true sovereignty!!

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Posted by: michaelm (not logged in) ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 11:30PM

I realized that the Book of Mormon is not real.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 11:36PM

They Lied to me; part of my training was to pass their lies on to others.


Game Over.



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Posted by: Pooped ( )
Date: December 21, 2016 11:42PM

The construction of lies in Mormonism kept lining up like dominos until the winds of truth blew each lie over causing the whole lined facade to topple successively leaving nothing worthwhile standing.

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Posted by: raiku ( )
Date: December 22, 2016 12:00AM

I don't like dishonest, abusive leaders.

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Posted by: SusieQ#1 ( )
Date: December 22, 2016 12:02AM

I left the LDS Church because I could no longer believe in any of it as the entire claim of visions, hidden golden plates, Book of Mormon translations, etc. by Joseph Smith Jr. were complete fabrications about imaginary people, places and things that never will have any validity.

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