I couldn't even click on my own post because the word with a p blocked it :/

Certain words are blocked on this site. If a word is blocked, figure out another way to say it, i.e. adult movies.

read the first post below, the word I put was "porn" is that word blocked on exmormon? it said it was restricted on my phone.

I don't know. It went through fine in your current post. The board will let you know when something is blocked. Sometimes it is a puzzle trying to figure out what exactly is off limits. :)

Messages with blocked words can still be edited, they just get rejected when you try to post them. If you couldn't click on it, something else was wrong.

It could be an isp problem.
Could be your phone OS having a bad moment
Could be RFM software having a problem

Sounds like you really don't know what the problem was, so I see little reason to assume that nefarious admins are out to quash your literary offering.

I have trouble with messages sometimes that don't have any of the "problematic" words in them at all. I don't understand it and I can't be bothered to go back and try to re-word a post word by word just to try to figure out what the offending word is.

I really wish the admins would publish the list of offensive words, so you could just look it up and avoid using them in the first place. Instead, it's somehow easier/more efficient to just keep everyone in the dark. I think a lot of well-written insightful posts get lost this way because I can't be the only one who just goes, "oh well fuckit" and moves on to something else.

My wish is that the offensive word would show up in red or something.
Many times I have tried to post stuff that appeared to not have forbidden words only to find out otherwise.

Sounds like maybe OPs parents put a block on his phone. He hasn't come back to this thread after he posted the word porn. I assume it's now blocked.

You might be right about that, Lillium.