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Posted by: daydreamsand memes ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 01:21PM

Okay, has anyone else noticed that all the "presidents of the church" and the "quarum of the 70's" ar all old, semi-white, mysogynistic men? because it pisses me off a lot.

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Posted by: Chicken N. Backpacks ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 01:32PM

It's a top down Northern euro-centric cult. What more more do you need to know?

OTOH, white people are the only ones left to make fun of, so let the jokes begin!

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Posted by: Red ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 11:33PM

Chicken N. Backpacks Wrote:
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> OTOH, white people are the only ones left to
> make fun of, so let the jokes begin!


In the contemporary US, sadly, that is true. That doesn't make it right. A polite prejudice is still a prejudice. It is time we, as in humanity, moved on from such racist bullcrap.

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Posted by: xxxMMMooo ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 05:19PM

The white (more semi-white recently as you point out) is simply due to the historical circumstance of the church's origins and development.

The old is a circumstance of living long and being part of a corporate bureaucracy that prioritizes / values seniority, networking (butt-kissery) and being part of the in-group over talent or competence.

The misogyny (such as it is) is rooted in the theology among other things.

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Posted by: smirkorama ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 06:39PM

daydreamsand memes Wrote:
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> Okay, has anyone else noticed that all the
> "presidents of the church" and the "quarum of the
> 70's" ar all old, semi-white, mysogynistic men?
> because it pisses me off a lot.

misogyny ? you must have missed the detail that those sanctimonious MORmON asses hate everybody, EVERYBODY, including and especially those who are damn foolish enough to sustain them as their MORmON leaders.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GuN_ZDJKkPo

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Posted by: Bang ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 06:51PM

I am astounded that people can know about TSCC hierarchy and not notice it.

I will also point out that grouping all "white males" together is unfair there are plenty of white males that are not old or misogynistic.

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Posted by: InJustice ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 08:24PM

Personally I don't care what they do with their religion.

As long as they don't bother me, I won't worry about them.

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Posted by: Heartless ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 10:06PM

The last picture I looked at for the 70 had two black gentlemen, 4 hispanic and 4 asian men as well as 1 native American.

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Posted by: Red ( )
Date: July 28, 2017 11:28PM

I don't have a problem with white males. If you do, you are, by definition, a racist, a misandrist, or both.

I have a HUGE problem with the cult though. And it is one that is/was racist, misogynist, manipulative, murderous, treasonous, and downright vile. Here's hoping it goes away sooner rather than later.

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Posted by: Drew90 ( )
Date: July 29, 2017 03:31AM

All this made me never like old white men. When choosing a doctor in Utah I always have stayed away from the old white men. It's ingrained in me to not trust them



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/29/2017 03:31AM by Drew90.

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Posted by: Dave the Atheist ( )
Date: July 29, 2017 11:35AM

I think they used to have a Lamanite but he got into some kind of trouble or something.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: July 29, 2017 11:46AM

The Mormon Gerontocracy only stay in power because everyone allows it and supports it. Your anger should be toward all the people of different colors and both genders who support them and keep them in power. Be mad at all the people who choose not to think for themselves and are happy to induct their children into the cult. Ignorance is not bliss. Ignorance is ignorance.

The Gerontocracy like the way things are so they sure as heck ain't going to fix what they perceive as a "not broken" system.

Old white males do not deserve bigotry aimed at them any more than anyone else. At some point we have to stop spinning the wheel to see who we should hate next.

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Posted by: bradley ( )
Date: July 29, 2017 06:37PM

Thoughts to ponder. They're as much victims or circumstance as the rest of us. Maybe more so with huge doctrinal and PR problems looming.

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Posted by: Free Man ( )
Date: July 30, 2017 01:25AM

If the leaders all hate women, why do so many women like the church?

Do women like to be hated?

Are women stupid?

Or could it be there are many benefits to women, like the leaders helping them control their man. Shaming him into getting married, being the sole bread winner, never looking at other women, not looking at porn, not masturbating, etc. Gives her monopoly control over him.

So the leaders actually help out the ladies. Which is why so many are pissed when their guy quits church. If he is no longer subject to the leaders, they've lost control over him. They would have to be more pleasant to get him to do things.

But we're not going to mention these little things, are we. Feminists cherry-pick the facts, just like TBMs. In order to keep the faith, only allow the info that supports the notion that women are victims and men the oppressors.

Victimhood is a booming industry. The bigger the victim, the more benefits you get.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 30, 2017 03:21AM

In a lot of societies women, particularly middle-aged and older women, are a conservative and sometimes reactionary force. There are a variety of reasons for this. One is that they are disproportionately dependent on men--for income, status, etc--and can't contemplate major social changes without fearing for their own futures. A related factor is that in many traditional societies women are held responsible for the family and children more than men are. This means they are reluctant event to tolerate social experimentation because if things go awry, it is they who will be blamed for the family's misfortunes.

A third reason in this cluster is that women have sacrificed so much. This works for the LDS church for both genders: the church makes you sacrifice, then it becomes ever more difficult to walk away even if you know intellectually the church is false. The emotional pull, the unwillingness to admit that you've devoted years and untold money to a lie is terrifying. In traditional societies, this dynamic is more powerful among women than men because it is they, more than those men, who have sacrificed education, career, romantic freedom, etc.

So responsibility for family and children, dependence on men, and the 'sunk costs' of having given up so much for the old values: these are the reason that in Islamic countries, for instance, older women are often bastions of conservatism. The same factors may well explain why women are more loyal to the LDS church than men are.

It is basic sociology. It is the sociology of emotional slavery.

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Posted by: dogzilla ( )
Date: August 02, 2017 01:59PM

Excellent response. To add to it, it's very difficult, if not impossible, to recognize misogyny when you've known nothing different your whole life. I couldn't identify it until I'd taken a few Women's Studies classes in college. And even then, I'd have told you that I didn't grow up with misogyny. Once I was out on my own, making my way in the world, I started seeing it everywhere, including (in retrospect) my own childhood/young adulthood.

We call that "internalized misogyny," when women perpetuate sexism against other women. Slut shaming is a great example, or judging SAHMs, that's also internalized misogyny.

Having control over my partner is not a partnership. That's just misogyny, using sex as currency in the relationship because it's the only thing the woman has control over in her life.

And I have to say this, although I know Free Man is a locked vault and reason will never get through to him. Feminism is about being in control of one's own choices. That means feminists want MEN to be in control of their own choices as well. It's anti-feminist (or misogynist) to try or want to control other people up to and including one's partner.

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