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paintingnotloggedin
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Date: November 19, 2017 02:56PM
wow This describes a person of my acquaintance. . I have observed this person desires to control all adult relations, starting specifically. They argued about a bed spread 23 years ago and its still on their bed, they demanded matching clothes on their first cruise. now, (they are female) they have their spouse and all their male relatives wearing matching white bobby socks, matching white leather tennis shoes with matching short shorts khaki high waisted and matching high arm top muscle round neck t shirts. It looks like a middle aged first grade field trip or school uniform, and all matching skin, all shaved legs, all shared sunscreen, all matching same shade sun glasses same shape frame.
its a wonder any of them have jobs which have stayed the same. They gather to buy every light bulb together and discuss every bodys possible purchase even of a book. And this acquaintance, weighs in, and the husband and males in the family, listen, and allow other people to guide their decision.
sigh
if you invite one to dinner, or an event, they say, I'll have to check how that works out (for ______) omg its like a cult.
same gilt/ guilt.
This person took coaching courses in their phd and practiced consciously shaping others behavior after first practicums perhaps accidently applied it to actual family before the course of ethics (*****) I don't know if they got carried away or know after they contracted live in supervising shaping institutionalized kids conduct then became a supervisor this acquaintance became peculiarly controlling lol and it really took off everyone started to copy them but they insist on how many slices of cheese or how to put mustard on bread among adults in the family, even their spouse.
it doesn't help that their family culture included references to the patriarch or the matriarch like control is their thing, expected, their game.
Oh god. Mormonism. I think I only recognize this and see the weird - everyone snapping photos from the same brand camera, standing in the same shoes, males and females with the same legs and shorts and shorty white bobby socks like they all three guys and one gal dressed out of the same box... its peculiar when one isn't running a at risk juvenile offender class with teens in hiphop regalia or 1970s cholos wearing the same pendletons in 100 degree cali weather all the females in baby doll black canvas all the cars low riders hopping sparking in the parking lots000==
fast forward you're thinking, hm middle aged, old folks, professionalism, hey- then snap attack shock stand back they're wearing a little uniform with a patriarch or matriarch making them all mind all the time.
they'd be like take those garments off dress like me baby
lol
once you leave the morg cult emotionally you don't get impressed much by other people's controlling stuff. seriously