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Posted by: Anon4This ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 06:53PM

In his defense, he is in his 30's and never trod one step as a high counselor nor bishopric member.

Get a grip bp! There is more to life than casting stones at others.

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Posted by: scg73 ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 08:45PM

If he'd had no previous bishopric wxperience; how did he end up asbishop? Were the desparate?

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 09:02PM

I've seen situations in a ward where two major factions each has a favorite, and the SP recognizes that picking one will alienate the other's faction, so they pick a third guy that nobody really knows, and call it inspiration.

That was how I, a hard core Mexican gang banger RM, got to be a 24 year old EQP in a Provo civilian ward. But I'm a sweetheart, so it mostly worked.

The same could have happened in the OP'S ward, only the new bishop is a Danity type leader...

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Posted by: Anon4This ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 09:55PM

I believe it was a matter of desperation rather than inspiration. We don't have a lot of available high priests and rather than rotate them back into the bishopric, the SP selected a bp from the elders.

He had to be ordained as a high priest and then set apart as the bp.

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 09:55PM

Why should you wait for him to grow up?

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: December 12, 2017 10:00PM

It's not like Mormonism is going to grow up. No sense waiting.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/12/2017 10:03PM by donbagley.

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Posted by: saucie ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 02:05PM

donbagley Wrote:
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> It's not like Mormonism is going to grow up. No
> sense waiting.


Exactly !!!!

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Posted by: Phazer ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 08:52AM

Good Luck on that one.

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Posted by: Badassadam1 ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 08:54AM

Hey be easy on the thirties, we are the product of a cult parentage.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 01:46PM

Good grief! Let kids be kids but don't give undue respect to men who think or act juveniles. This goes double for some guy who is somehow in a position of power.

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Posted by: Jonny the Smoke ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 01:59PM

What are you thinking will happen if/ when he "grows up"?

I guess I don't get why you are waiting on a bishop for anything at all, let alone to grow up, whatever that means.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 02:47PM

I think I get it...

The new bishop in the OP's ward was a big surprise that no one saw coming, probably including the new bishop.

So now he's thinking that he's on the fast track to apostolic stardom, and he's observed THEIR behavior and has adopted said behavior as his model, which includes the OP's observation:

>
> There is more to life than casting stones at others.
>

But of course this is not something the new bishop is going to be paying attention to. He's in his 30s and he's the new father of the ward and he's taking names and kicking asses because that's what he figures it takes to make a name for oneself. He probably has a time line figured out, and wondering if he has to waste three years as an MP... Remember, Monson was only 36 when he was called to be LiarLiarPantsOnFire.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 03:07PM

It's the same as ordaining an eighteen year old straight out of high school with the fabled Melchisdek priesthood and then letting him believe he is supremely chosen to teach the world how things really are. They imagine themselves very wise as the ape their elders. Or at least they are imitating their perception of their elders magnifying the Mormon arrogance every time they open their mouths.

The thirty year old bishop is exactly the same. He is aping what his own impression of past and present leaders is and was. Untrained clergy posing as seasoned and sage. Clueless and dangerous.

This is sort of like the nouveau riche with their McMansions and sports cars. They have no idea that old money considers them vulgar even as they imagine themselves to be impressive with their fancy show off trappings. Eager to impress. Not eager to learn.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 03:16PM

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> Eager to impress. Not eager to learn.
>


You nailed it, D&D

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Posted by: nevermojohn ( )
Date: December 13, 2017 04:17PM

He’s in his 30s. I would not expect much more maturity at this point.

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Posted by: readwrite ( )
Date: December 14, 2017 10:05PM

Why are you waiting (without pay) [on someone else]? Do you care?

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Posted by: dp ( )
Date: December 14, 2017 10:34PM

I don't know, according to this - https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/guide/sexual-health-your-guide-to-sexual-response-cycle#1 - "...a few minutes to several hours...".

Of course, there's always this (from https://www.viagra.com) to consider: "If you have an erection that lasts more than 4 hours, get medical help right away."

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Posted by: levantis ( )
Date: December 16, 2017 02:53PM

I'd give him about 30 seconds.

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