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Posted by: ificouldhietokolob ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 09:07PM

"The alleged abuse occurred years ago and was reported in late September to police in the Phoenix suburb of Mesa by a lawyer for the Mormon church who said the alleged victim revealed the alleged abuse to her bishop. She spoke with investigators several weeks later, saying she was coming forward after being encouraged to do by Paul Babeu, a family friend who was the Pinal County Sheriff from 2009 through 2016."

Yep, looks like mormonism is involved.

"The woman told investigators that she first told her mother when she was around age 13 that Fuller had touched her inappropriately but that her mother told her making those kind of claims could ruin others’ lives."

Oh, yeah, mormonism is *absolutely* involved.
Another mormon parent putting the "reputation" of others over their own child. Disgusting.

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Posted by: chipace ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 09:30PM

Yeah, when I read that quote from the mother, my stomach turned. I wish that the victim could have talked to her dad instead... I don't think there is a father alive who would not protect their daughter. I would do jail time for assult to anyone who tried this on my sons.

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Posted by: carameldreams ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 09:34PM

chipace Wrote:
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> Yeah, when I read that quote from the mother, my
> stomach turned. I wish that the victim could have
> talked to her dad instead... I don't think there
> is a father alive who would not protect their
> daughter.

So true. Helen Kimball's dad was so protective.

As was Clarissa Decker's daddy.

And Elizabeth Fairchild's papa.

Oh, and daddy-O Alger.

And then...

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Posted by: chipace ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 09:55PM

Touche. Yes, there are horrible men (such as the accused). My wife would be in jail with me, also for assult. I should have said that the victim should have talked with both parents... hopefully both would not have failed her.



Edited 3 time(s). Last edit at 03/08/2018 10:06PM by chipace.

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Posted by: carameldreams ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 10:01PM

chipace Wrote:
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> None of those fathers are alive now. I stand by my
> statement. I welcome you to give me an example of
> a living father you has failed to protect his
> daughter.

So why do fathers abuse girls? Living fathers?

Why even bother with petitioning for no more Bishop interviews if all these Bishops would do anything to protect their child(ren)?

You’re speaking Joseph Smith spin doctoring.

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Posted by: chipace ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 10:07PM


Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 03/08/2018 10:15PM by chipace.

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Posted by: carameldreams ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 10:14PM

chipace Wrote:
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> And you are pulling examples out of air when the
> parent that failed the victim was the mother. Stay
> on topic.

Her alleged abuser is a father. And a leader in Boy Scouts.

Why isn’t he like all the other living fathers, according to your definitions?

Statistically, a girl is more at risk from a father than a mother.

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Posted by: chipace ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 10:18PM

I have amended my posts as they were done emotionally. I have removed my gender related statements. There is no point in arguing gender inequality as there are infinite examples in either favor.
I am sorry for starting this discussion.

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Posted by: azsteve ( )
Date: March 08, 2018 09:16PM

I have seen cases like this before. Next, the Bishop will tell everyone that the church was aware of this transgression years ago, and that the Judge repented long ago, and should just be forgiven.

The church acts as though they have the ability to forgive on behalf of both the victem and the law. They don't.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: March 09, 2018 01:44PM

jumped out at me. I would have been put in prison, too.

The thing that really is horrible about the mother is that she ever allowed her daughter to be with this person at all, let alone ALONE. She just let the abuse go on. Sacrificed her daughter.

It should have been reported, but if she had just been protective of her daughter, it could have been stopped a long time ago.

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