Not Codependent Anymore
Date: April 13, 2018 01:20PM
Been pushing and shoving with my sister for a period of almost thirty years. We never get along.
Lately I have started to understand that she does not want my type of validation anymore. It is like I am treating her the "wrong" way when I acknowledge her unconditionally as my sister. I can not help identifying with her. But since a few years back she does not sense that energy from me anymore and she just want me to validate here through what she does and perform in her professional life. She does not value the bond we have since we grew up.
It feels strange that she gets more angrier at me for not commenting her new car than she gets when I am ignoring her because she has been mean to me.