Posted by:
exminion
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Date: October 04, 2019 01:53PM
I'm wondering what would happen if you wrote her an equally heartfelt letter about your beliefs.
I mean, don't mention the Mormon church at all. Instead, express to her those things that are dear to your heart. For example, your love for your family, your love of nature, your wonder at the universe, your appreciation for friendships, new technologies, your car, your pets, music--whatever it is that brings you joy! If you still believe in Christ, you can praise His teachings, especially of unconditional, Christ-like love. Write about the Bible. If you have overcome your Mormon prejudices (don't call them that to her), express your appreciation of diversity and other cultures, and ethnic foods, etc.
Start out your letter with something like, "Yes, I also share a testimony for life and love as a family member. You're right--it does bring me great joy." Reflect back the positives that she wrote to you, but do not mention Mormonism at all.
If you are Christian in your beliefs, send her a book by a positive Christian writer, such as CS Lewis "Mere Christianity" or Robert Schuller's book about Christian Love.
If you are Atheist, just don't mention religion at all, and send her a book about Love (not sex) or science or poetry--or whatever YOU keep by your bedside.
Think of anything that puts you and your beloved family member on the same path.
You are fortunate that someone reached out to you. None of my family members did. I would love to have an opportunity to tell Mormons about the happiness that the outside world can bring to one's life.