Mother Who Knows
Date: January 05, 2020 02:23AM
To put it another way, your ex-husband is a Narcissist (or psychopath) who is looking for more "supply" from you. Narcissists collect people to suck dry. I also agree that he wants to hurt you by throwing it in your face that he now wants children with his latest wife. Why did he contact your husband, instead of you, I'm not sure, but one poster said he is probably passive-aggressive. Maybe he wants to cause trouble between your husband and you. He's a crazy Mormon, so who can guess what he is thinking. Block him. I think divorce decrees are public records, and anyone at all can get a copy from the county courthouse, but I'm not sure of that, either.
The only thing to be sure of is to keep your boundary, and maintain NO CONTACT with your ex. Even the slightest contact, even through your husband, will feed your ex's supply, and he will continue to contact you, for the rest of your life. I've seen this happen, and with an ex-wife as well as an ex-husband. Beware.