Posted by:
ragnar
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Date: May 10, 2020 06:08AM
My sister died at the age of 58 nearly 4 years ago (esophageal and stomach cancer). She was born and raised ‘in the church’ but had permanently parted ways with it when she was about 18 years old. She had married twice, the second time to a man identified here as K** C. This man was divorced and had two young sons. They were married for 5 years, and I was not privy to details of their estrangement, other than she said that K** had decided to get back together with his first wife.
Last year, my son got the following note though an ancestry/family tree website. He shared it with me:
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“Hello P****,
I have been getting promptings to help complete J***’s temple ordinances and have reached out to two of her siblings without any response. Would you be willing to grant permission to complete her ordinances.
Former husband.
In this life I could not seem to help her but would certainly like to make sure that she has the opportunity to now except or decline the gospel of Jesus Christ. We were married for 5 years and I new J*** quite well. I am certain she is ready.
Sincerely,
K** C “
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This letter bothers me for several reasons (besides the fact that he cannot spell). First, he may be referring to me as one of his “reaching outs”. A year prior to this note, this former husband sent me a “Friend” invite on Facebook – no note or message. It took me a while to figure out who he was, and when I did, I turned down the invite; I had nothing to say to him.
The second issue is the use of the word “promptings.” Members of LDS Corp. use this terminology to claim direct communication/contact with and guidance from the supernatural, when in reality they are self-generated delusions and pretended hallucinations – nothing more and nothing less.
Third, the air of superiority bothers me. It’s a case of “We know what’s best for you and what’s best for J***”. My sister was doing quite well without dealing with LDS Corp interference in her life (I have no idea if/how involvement in the LDS Corp factored into their marriage; my sister never went into great detail regarding any of their problems).
I advised my son to ignore this request. I told him that – if he conveyed any ‘permission’ to this ex- to perform these ordinances – he should be prepared to experience hauntings, nightmares, and wholesale negative interference in his life from his departed aunt until the day he died. Regardless of what this ex- said, K** certainly did NOT “know” my sister nearly as well as he claimed.
My sister made her life choice and followed her own track regarding the LDS Corp for at least 40+ years. Why can’t they just leave her alone? She’s not bothering or hurting any of them.