Posted by:
cakeordeath
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Date: July 24, 2020 06:11PM
Recently I had a relative pass away in another town. On the day of the funeral, the family greeted friends, LDS Church members, and others who had made time for our relatives memory. One of the guests has been a long-time personal friend to my parents. Whenever he would visit our home, see us at church, or in town, he'd always make it a point to tell me that I was his 'little buddy'. These trite episodes would happen over and over again across the years. I finally saw him again at my relatives funeral.
At the funeral, He came up to me, shook my hand, gave me a big hug, and asked how I was with 'the Church'? "I haven't been in years and I don't plan on going back", I answered. The blood drained from his face, deer-in-the-headlight eyes burned a hole in my eyes, as he mustered a response. He grabbed me by the neck, pulled me close to himself and whispered, "You better fix that before I see you next time." He stamped his feet as he walked off to the other side of the chapel. During the eulogy and 'Bishop's Message' sputum, I could notice him staring at me as if I he intended to fix the problem on the spot.
Ms. Cake and I had secured bench seats which allowed a quick egress to the chapel doors and then out of the ward building. As soon as the benediction started, we bolted to the doors, made it to the car, and drove to a parking lot on the other side of town. I called my sister, told her we would meet the family back at home in another nearby town. In the months afterwards, I've had to block this 'Big Buddy' from all of my social networking connections. A year ago I filed an Affidavit with local police as to my experiences with this zealot. Until yesterday.
My sister called to inform me that this guy had sadly passed away and would I like to ride with the family to his funeral? Are you joking? This clown was a zealot that wouldn't let go of having me in the church and he would not let up over a long period of time. When I told my mother of my experiences over the last two years with this family friend she refused to accept the story. Mom just lost her privileges for at least one year. No visits, just phone calls and cards. Distance makes the heart grow colder when it comes to not protecting people and children from zealots and stupid-heads. Even sadder, on the outside, and to everyone who knew him in church circles, he was a Saint. He went through 3 wives during a military career, all of which ended in divorce. That alone doesn't make him a bad person but, it doesn't speak well of dealing with relationships.
Anyone else have this, or similar situation happen?
Cake