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Posted by: subliminal ( )
Date: May 01, 2021 02:28AM

Forgive me if this is against the rules. I have a suspicion that something abuse related happened to me when I was younger by a church member but I blocked all of it out completely. It wouldve happened somewhere in the mid 2000s. Maybe 2005 or so. I know the mans last name but I dont know his first. Is there someone that can help me that has access to membership records? I want to look up more info on this person but I dont have a first name



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 05/01/2021 02:32AM by subliminal.

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Posted by: Adam the Warrior ( )
Date: May 13, 2021 01:44AM

I know what its like to look for answers about abuse when the past is mostly blurry because of it all. Not sure how to look up people really. In my situation the guilty never got prosecuted they just let me take the fall for all their actions basically while they still are living outside of jail to this day. At least my mother admitted that she should have been locked up in jail but I had to expose her first to a professional to finally get her to admit it. As for the two other guilty parties, they have never admitted guilt nor taken accountability for any assaults against me to this day. But, I learned they are narcissists so what else do you expect from those type of scumbags.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: May 13, 2021 11:49AM

I regained many memories of being sexually abused by a sibling and a scoutmaster when I was approaching 50. Put my life in an incredible tailspin.

I looked up my abuser and wish that I had not. He went on to be a serial abuser even administrating an Internet forum for pedophiles. He claimed he was "dating" twelve year old boys.

Last I knew when I was young was he was locked up in the Utah State Penn for abusing kids at the Utah Mental Hospital where he worked as a thug for making them conform.

Little did I know he was let out crossed the country and led a life of continuing to hurt kids. I won't look him up anymore. I'm moving on.

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Posted by: Adam the Warrior ( )
Date: May 13, 2021 03:49PM

One abuser found me on facebook (a scout master also) a while ago and it triggered me big time so I stopped getting on facebook. He wanted to know if he could help me with anything but I knew he just felt guilty for what he did decades ago to me. The guy got away with a strangulation attempt against me that changed my life for the worst from that point forward. I am greatful that it was not a molestation but it was still very traumatic and I still struggle with PTSD from that and the entire religion with a narcissist family experience really was extremely traumatic also. The whole thing was a living nightmare basically with my eyes open.

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: May 15, 2021 03:12AM

Just try Mr.
(That should work)

If not, try Dr.
(You may have luck)

Lastly, try Brother
(That's pretty likely)

You'll find your man!
Stick with my plan.

Your lawyer can help with abuse

We are not your lawyer

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