Posted by:
Schlock
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Date: January 06, 2012 01:21PM
But, from what I've read, it sounds like your wife has some overarching sexual hang-ups that could be insurmountable (pardon the cloying pun).
And it sounds like you have a healthy normal sex drive.
And if sex is that important to you, it may make more sense to find a partner that is more compatible with you in that regard.
And yes, divorce will be very difficult, for you, for your wife, and especially for the kids. But is the disharmony of your current arrangement any more palitable?
You need to carefully weigh all the factors before making such a momentous decision in all of your lives - I strongly recommend you line up some sessions with a therapist (non-mo, of course) for yourself, without your wife, and see if you can't develop a life path that makes the most sense for all involved.
I thought I liked sex way too much until I married a second time, and my wife proceeded to boink my brains out (she couldn't get enough, and was open to all sorts of adventures). Don't let your wife convince you of the meme that all men are pervs...
(And the common corollary here: The mormon church screws with peoples sexual and emotional health in ways that are pervasive and twisted. And so do the fundies.)
Exhibit A:
http://www.salon.com/2012/01/04/rick_santorum_is_coming_for_your_birth_control/