Have you ever thought that you dad could be mentally ill? Google or Wiki "Narcissistic Parent"
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissistic_parentsI have found that Utah is full of control freaks, especially the priesthood type.
behindcurtain Wrote:
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> I am being "forced" by my dad to attend meetings
> at Wasatch Mental Health in Provo. I can't
> disobey him because I live in his house! I was
> living on my own in Mississippi for 7 years, and
> then I had a car accident. Because of that
> accident, I lost my car, home, and job, and had to
> move to Utah. I view my problem as temporary.
> Eventually I can get a job and move out on my own.
> But my dad has always thought I need mental help,
> and now he has me in his clutches.
>
> I go to Wasatch Mental Health once a week. We sit
> around and talk. The problem is, I want to talk
> about religious abuse, how the Church has impacted
> my life, and how frustrated I am with Mormonism.
> The leader of this group is a Mormon, and many
> members are Mormon. I don't have anything in
> common with any of them. So I feel I am wasting
> my time. What's worse, I started to talk about
> religious abuse, and the leader said we shouldn't
> talk about that. Another member can talk about
> his problem all he wants, but I want to talk about
> mine and I'm not allowed to. So now I'm angry at
> the group as well.
>
> My dad now wants me to attend more than one group
> now! That's even worse!! That puts me under a
> lot of stress, and I'm concerned I might flip out
> and start yelling at everybody in the group
> sometime, and who knows what could happen after
> that. I'm naturally a very quiet person who likes
> to be alone, and this group is supposed to fix
> that "problem". I would have never gone to this
> group without my parents' influence.
>
> I'm convinced that the Mormon Church has some
> influence in Wasatch Mental Health. They have
> their fingers in so many other pies, and they want
> to protect BYU. I think that any social worker
> who truly cares about the harm Mormonism causes is
> soon replaced by a social worker who is acceptable
> to the Mormon hierarchy and who turns a blind eye
> to Mormon problems.
>
> My dad sent me to psychologists in the past. He
> has always thought I needed one. These were both
> Mormon, both insensitive to my problems with the
> Church, and one in particular was particularly
> rude and nasty. If I ever want mental help, I
> want to look for it on my own, not be coerced into
> it.
>
> When I go to the group meetings I often don't say
> much at all and just wait for the meeting to end.
>
> I'd like to move to Salt Lake; then I could
> transfer to Valley Mental Health, and maybe the
> people there are more sympathetic to unbelieving
> Mormons.