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Twinker
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Date: September 29, 2010 02:22PM
So I post Eric K.'s youtube video on my facebook page and first thing you know, my nephew-in-law (who I never, ever hear from) writes back. And, being grateful for the opportunity, I responded.
September 29 at 8:54am
Why would you post this video? To promote this guy's website? There are many out there that lose faith in their religion for one reason or another. You don't think we haven't had our faith in our Church tested over the years many times. [Twinker], it doesn't matter to us or effect our believe because someone for some reason became an unbeliever. He seems like a good guy, I hope he found what he was looking for. I know he didn't find fault in the Gospel of Jesus Christ which our Church is based on. At least I would guess not. I also assume that he didn't expect all the members to be perfect either. I just need you to know that I know the Church is true and teaches wonderful doctrine, moral values, hard work ethic, love your fellow man no matter what, etc. Someone else's lack of understanding is sad but it doesn't effect my knowledge and belief. If I weren't a Mormon I would want my friends, especially the friends of my children, to be Mormons. There is not a better group of people to know on the face of this earth. We love you and hope things are going well.
{Nephew]
P.S. - You should watch General Conference on TV this weekend if you need a spiritual boost.
Hi [Nephew],
Thanks for taking the time to send me a facebook message.
You asked, "Why would I post this video". I guess I would say for the same reason the LDS Church sends out missionaries all over the world: because they believe they have something important to say that they want others to hear.
No, I didn't send it to promote Eric's website. But I do find him to be articulate, intelligent, and sincere in sharing what he believes and helping others who have come to the same crossroads. He is a man of personal integrity and independent thought. I like his demeanor, his honesty, and his tolerant, non-confrontation voice of reason.
I did not post that link to convince anyone to change their beliefs. I recall one of the Articles of Faith (#11?) says: "We claim the privilege of worshiping Almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience, and allow all men the same privilege, let them worship how, where, or what they may." If the missionaries knock on my door I wish them luck but tell them I'm not interested. I would assume anyone reading my posts could do the same.
You said that you know he didn't find fault in the doctrine upon which the LDS church is built. But that isn't true. He DID find fault and could no longer support something he came to know as false.
You said, as most members do, that you know the Church is true and teaches wonderful doctrine, moral values, hard work ethic, love your fellow man no matter what, etc. I would agree that many of the church's teachings of moral values are valid. I wouldn't agree with all of them, however as I do not believe drinking coffee, alcohol, using tobacco, or admitting one's inborn, intractable sexual orientation are moral issues. I also do not believe that decency and morality are exclusive to Mormons. It is my experience that most people share the most basic values of kindness, fairness and honesty. I also do not agree with the standard statement of members, "I know the church is true". One CANNOT know it's true - even if it were to turn out to be. -To state that one knows the truth of something unknowable demonstrates a lack of understanding of what it means "to know". What members actually experience is an emotional feeling, trust, and belief. But it isn't knowledge. Knowledge requires verifiable evidence.
Members often state that non-believers, or apostates, or exmormons should get their information about the church from members. I will guarantee to you that I know more about the Mormon church than 95% of the believing members. Like many members, I am also a 6th generation descendent of Mormon pioneers and share the same history. I have read and studied extensively. I know the doctrines of the church as well as any member. I also know the church's history and its changing doctrines - something that is kept from members. If the church were true, the authorities wouldn't need to work so hard at keeping members from reading damaging material. The church should be able to stand on its own merits and not fear the information that is out there. In fact, members would only need to read so called authentic Mormon sources to find the discrepancies and troubling issues. For instance: On the church's own genealogy site,
http://www.familysearch.org/Eng/Search/af/individual_record.asp?recid=7762167one can find that Joseph Smith married over 30 women - 1/3 of which were already married to other men and 1/3 of which were under the age of 18 including Helen Mar Kimball who was only 14. I'm not surprised that the church authorities wouldn't want members stumbling upon that information. Most of today's current members do not know about his polygamy and polyandry and do not know that Joseph Smith kept that information from the majority of his followers. Nor do they realize it was that practice of marrying underage girls and already married women that was the real reason for his persecution and that of his sincere followers.
You guys have always been happy in the church and have found that it meets your needs. But because others don't believe in it, or worse, consider it a mind-controlling cult, doesn't mean that every statement is an attack on members. People are just saying what they believe.
Please know that I love you guys and wish you no ill will. And please know that what I believe to be true about the church is not in any way a reflection of my affection and caring for all of you!
Love,
[TWinker]