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Date: December 29, 2010 06:53AM
I've been alive 28 years. Twenty-three years as a TBM then three years sewing some wild oats. I'm a little disappointed that only in the last couple years have I started shedding the church's influence. I believe that even those few years of partying were just my spiteful reaction to what I felt was a tight religious hold on my values. Blaming a religion, and my parents for my regrets didn't serve me well, so I've tried to accept my past. Every once in a while those regrets come up & bite me, and it hurts. That's how I feel right now, angry, hurt, and disappointed. I didn't have a choice. I was paraded around and blessed in a sacrament meeting when I was only a few weeks old, dunked in some water at eight, served a mission at 19, and lived all the bullshit in between. I suppressed my real desires in order to veil myself with an image that would make the herd happy. I paid tribute to their idols, worshiped in their ornate buildings, and wore their fucked up clothes. I did it because they told me to, because if I didn't I would lose the respect and companionship of lifelong friends, and family.
To the friends I lost, I say good riddance you ignorant spineless fucks.
To my family: I'm stuck with you, and you're stuck with me. I'm glad we've found a comprimise and a little common ground.
I usually just peruse this board for some good jokes. Today, I needed to get this shit off my chest. Thanks for reading. For those of you born and raised mormon whom are ready to leave, be strong. It's taken a long time, but I finally feel like I'm me. The clothes I wear, the music I listen to, the books I read, the women I date, and the people I associate with are no longer influenced by fear.
Happy Holidays everybody.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/29/2010 09:17AM by phillip.