Well... its nothing if not honest. Here's an article from the "blame women" side of the isle that says basically nothing but, "blame women."
I don't think she has ever considered that maybe women also LIKE things this way. She just assumes that all women are like her, and want to be married, stay at home moms, with like 7 or 8 kids, who pamper their hard-working husbands when they get home from their big, strong man-job. I'm no woman, but I think she's actually be in the minority on this issue.
That is the worst article I've ever read. No one but Faux News would have published such ill-supported claptrap. The author needs to buddy up with Dr. Laura and write a follow-up to Fascinating Womanhood or something.
I don't understand what the big deal is. I read this earlier in the day because it was on Facebook.
I am no feminist but I am not stuck in the 1950s either. I do think there is a....reversal of sorts in the gender gap. Men are made into villains or at least made to look.... simple in the media today. It happens in sitcoms and ad campaigns.
I think the author is offering a suggestion for some of the reason that men are not wanting to get married. I am sure it is not the whole problem but it is part of it.
She does say that women should submit to their femininity, which according to Facebook is where a lot of the criticism over her article lies. What would that mean? It doesn't have to mean that a woman goes back to being barefoot in the kitchen. I think it would mean really loving men. Letting a man take care of them a little.
The only point she has right is: society has changed.
A large portion of men are still raised with the message that they will be responsible for taking care of their wife financially. A large portion of women, on the other hand, are being raised to be independent. Basically, they are raised with different expectations and it's causing a disconnect.
I see it more as the fact that our individual and societal values have changed and a lot of people haven't (or choose not to) caught up.