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2 years ago
Helen
Thanks for the laugh.
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2 years ago
Helen
Hi Phil. I remember you.Hope you are doing well.
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5 years ago
Helen
In 1997 my beloved and I resigned from the Church but hadn't been in a Mormon Church for 19 years. It took seven months and three letters and a phone call before it was done. Some Bishop we have never met here in the town we live called and asked us to reconsider leaving our names on the Church. We both said "No." He then asked me again if I wouldn't please reconsider leaving my
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6 years ago
Helen
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfW524khE0c&feature=youtu.be
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6 years ago
Helen
Glad your friend is getting the medical/surgical care she needs. Wishing her the best.
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6 years ago
Helen
n/t
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6 years ago
Helen
My heartfelt condolences to you in the death of your wife. Grief is a tough journey. My husband died in December 2016. We had almost 50 years together so I have lots of memories that are a salve to the enormous waves of grief that sweep over me. I have not had one day that I have not cried since he died. I understand people mean well when they tell me how fortunate that we had almost fift
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks rolled tacos on a Sunday. It really was a good almost 50 years and I am so happy we left the church together. We were both converts and he really joined to marry me.He was so supportive and I knew he didn't really believe it and I certainly had some issues with some of the teachings but we tried to be good Mormons. We spent 9 years in the Church. He loved it the day he came home from the b
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7 years ago
Helen
SusieQ#1, We had a "Living Will" and Gene had everything filed like Life Insurance,IRA,Tax returns, Social Security info, etc., etc. All the papers I'd need.You are right about being prepared. He was a USAF active duty Officer for 11 years and USAF reserve Officer for 11 years plus 30 years Civilian with The US Army Department of Defence so the paperwork is daunting even with what
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you matt for the wishes. Taking it a day at a time. Grief is tough.
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7 years ago
Helen
Dear MexMom, Thank you for your kind message and wishes for comfort and healing. I am Sorry to hear your mother and grandmother also had Multiple Myeloma. There have been many advances in the treatment and people from at least 58 countries have gone to the Myeloma Institute in Little Rock, Arkansas for treatment. It was hard being 600 miles away from our home but we had such hope and G
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7 years ago
Helen
Hi hgc, Thanks for the condolences. I bet our paths did cross in Wiesbaden. Congratulations to you on #47 wedding anniversary.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks Kendal Mint Cake. I did have a good life with a really good guy.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks Tom. Yes it is sad but we'll walk through it one foot in front of the other.
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7 years ago
Helen
Dear Aquarius, Your message touches my heart. Thank you.
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7 years ago
Helen
We enjoyed our time with you too. Adjusting to life without Gene is difficult for sure. I always enjoyed your posts and remember you gave me the info I was wanting about the Danites. I named you the Encyclopedia of Mormon History.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you so much knotheadusc for recognizing our grief and wishing peace be with us. Lots of sadness but there are moments of peace. Grief is a journey.
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7 years ago
Helen
Dear paintinginthewin, Thank you for such a kind response.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you presleynfactsrock for your warm hugs. Yes, we have so many wonderful memories that are a salve to our grief.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you for your kind message edzachery.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you angela. My heartfelt condolences in the death of your mother and the grief seems even more overwhelming when the death is not expected. My husband was very ill but making slow progress and was up in the sunroom playing cards with us on Friday, doing physical therapy and hopeful but got "hit" with another complication from the chemo and died Tuesday. The plan was to get
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks cludgie. That was a fun weekend in Atlanta hanging out with you and NormaRae and the others. Missing Gene is the hardest thing I've ever had to do.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks dagny. Yes, he was my best friend. I enjoyed your posts too, logical and factual. Are you still in the South? When we moved to the South it was an adjustment for us. If you you are not Born Again and Republican it took some time finding people who didn't want to convert us to their religion or politics.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks for the ((((Hugs)))). Yes, we had so many good years together.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thank you ificouldhietokolob. Ah the memories are sweet and help yet it brings up the grief of missing him. I got your cyber hug.....thanks.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks SusieQ#1. I remember when your husband died and that you had a long marriage. We would have been married 49 years and he died 3 days before what would have been the 50th. anniversary of our first date. We always celebrated that anniversary as well as our wedding anniversary. I am just beginning my "new normal"and at present am sitting with the heart wrenching grief and ge
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks Ron. Before my husband had to start Chemotherapy we had a great trip to my home in Halifax, Nova Scotia. Lovely having that memory.
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7 years ago
Helen
Thanks. I remember that and remember how I loved your tagname.
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