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Date: October 26, 2016 09:17AM
"A 50 cent black Halloween witches brew trick-or-treat bucket, inside: stickers, a kids pen with pumpkins, M&M's (which I don't eat) and a pair of socks (too small,tag removed) and a little stuffed Charlie Brown toy (dog toy?) with a bat on it. A kids card with a firefighter on it, nothing written inside. And a piece of paper."
Okay. That is just a whole new level of creepy. Has no idea what an adult woman might enjoy, instead,
" Written on it: "I could not find a card that I liked. Sorry for your pain. I adore you and liked hanging out with you. " love .....
DUDE."
He shopped for a card and gifts for HIMSELF, and they were juvenile gifts. After a year of opportunity to notice your preferences and tastes, nada. It's all about what the snake wants, and he's so out of touch with you it's scary. I fear that you're going to end up needing to beat him off with a stick, or restraining order.
These I I I me me me types are very deceptive, seductive and emotionally abusive, and his behavior has been emotionally abusive.
And he never even bought a meal for you? Or a grocery store bouquet? The "sorry for your pain" - he's not hurting, then offers flattery - for what? He likes hurting beautiful things?
Love??? Love is an act, it is generosity of self, it is empathy, even sacrifice. He has no clue who you are or what you're feeling. He couldn't even manage a sandwich or a lunch in a year, but shows up with dollar store toys. Even were he poor, he couldn't put $1 / week in a jar for you, skip a lunch today to share one with you tomorrow. I just developed another idea about him. He is way, way too stupid for you.
Oh, lucky, lucky, smart butterfly, fly fly fly away like you have only this one day, this one life to live.
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/communication-success/t201409/10-signs-youre-in-relationship-narcissist