Posted by:
Breeze
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Date: August 26, 2017 01:53AM
My neighbor is a handsome university professor. He went to a class reunion, with his wife, who had terminal cancer, and was in a wheel chair. They were accosted by one of professor's classmates, whom he had met only once before, and she stick with them, for the entire reunion.
True story. That classmate watched the obituaries, every day, and them showed up at the professor's wife's funeral. I saw her over at his house almost every day, bringing casseroles, taking his laundry in and out. She even cleaned his house for him. My other neighbor and I warned him about this woman, as she had a reputation of being a "funeral-monger", which is what we called single women who stalk widowers.
When my professor neighbor broke his leg, he was easy prey. The stalker actually moved into his house, and spent the night, "taking care of him." Professor was in the Stake High Council, and for appearances, stalker lady would hide her car in his garage. (Yes, my other neighbor and I are nosey--we admit it!)
End it now. Mormons do not take subtle hints. You must be ruder than you would like to be--well out of your comfort zone--but most important, you need to repeat, repeat, repeat, over, and over, and over again. Choose a few words, such as, "I don't want to talk to you.", and repeat that same sentence. Say it on the phone, and hang up. Leave a note on your front door. Do not be polite. Do not smile. Do not sign the note.
It ended badly for my professor neighbor--he married her! He never did get rid of her. She convinced him to stop seeing his friends, and to completely dis-own his children, She us one of the nastiest, ugliest people I've ever met. Some people don't deserve to be treated politely.
Get well, soon! Nurses say that when patients start complaining, that is a sign they are getting better!
I agree that you should call your doctor about your pain. Often, a doctor or nurse will give you an official printed notice to hang on your front door, setting rules for your much-needed privacy.