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anon boyfriend
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Date: November 05, 2012 02:16PM
So my LDS girlfriend and I are normal human beings and express our love to each other sometimes through sex.
After the new missionary age announcement something triggered in her head and now she wants to leave on a mission by next Spring.
I disaffected from Mormonism 3 years ago and I have respectfully made it clear to her that I strongly recommend she does not use an LDS mission to satisfy her needs for selflessness and instead focus on service through her chosen career path in the medical field instead of the missionary field to avoid frustration and disappointment that I personally experienced with the missionary program.
Here's my big question for the forum: She has had a few more sexual partners before me, if she is honest during her interview process do you think this will disqualify her?
She is obviously good at creating her own interpretation of explicit rules. She says growing up she wrote her own version of For Strength of Youth and renamed it "For Strength of (Her Name)"
She is a very nonjudgmental loving and caring person who is quite a very literal believer, so I am very concerned that either she will feel horrible for lying to a bishop or horrible that she that she is rejected from being allowed to do what in her mind is the best service she can offer.
If she is honest what are her chances she will be allowed to be assigned to an LDS mission?