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9 years ago
ddrakep
I would really like to attend this meeting as I have questions about leaving the church. What happens at these meetings? Thanks for the info.
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10 years ago
ddrakep
I'm just curious if there is anyone on here that worked in a temple in Utah. If so, what one did you work at? Did you ever feel it was wrong while working? Just curious about this.
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10 years ago
ddrakep
Has anyone had or know of someone who had sex on a mission? I had a friend who went to the Northwest that did everything but finish the deed with a lady. Just curious if anyone else has a story. I think it's awesome that someone would.
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10 years ago
ddrakep
My wife and I went inactive several years ago. We have not moved forward on the steps of total resignation, but I hope to one day. We quit wearing garments about 2 years ago completely after years of semi wearing them. I've noticed lately how often I see active members of the church using excuses not to wear them and I feel bad. Most of the time it has to do with exercise. I've seen ladies go to
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10 years ago
ddrakep
So my wife is at girls camp and I'm worried she's going to come back all brainwashed. We've been inactive pretty much 3 years now. My wife's friend who is also our neighbor asked her to be her assistant at camp. She agreed so as to not let down her friend. She comes back tomorrow and I hope things won't be all different and she bought back into the bull crap.
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10 years ago
ddrakep
Just curious if anyone is from western weber county.
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11 years ago
ddrakep
I was talking to a friend the other day, and she mentioned how she hated the end of her belief in the church. She felt so much pressure, especially wearing of garments. As a form of rebellion, she wore a red thong and lace bra to the temple to view a family members sealing.I thought this was hysterical, and wish I whave thought of it. Did anyone do this? I felt a form of rebellion the first t
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Just curious if anyone is in weber county utah? Particularly the ogden area out west. Would love to know if any groups meet.
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Me and my wife have not worn g's for about 2 years. I still feel guilty around certain family members, especially my dad. How do I get past this? I'm sure they know, but need to feel 100% comfortable around them. Thanks for any advice. Side note....how sexy is it to see panties instead of those hideous bottoms while getting ready??
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Ok everyone, I need some help. Although I know the real truth, and am greatful I finally found the courage to leave, I struggle with this. Anytime I'm confronted by a TBM friend or family member, my mind goes blank and I struggle to give them a reasonable example as to why I don't believe. Can any of you give a quick bullet point list of examples of the truth? Not looking for the links and su
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11 years ago
ddrakep
I think I might have worded it wrong. Obviously no one would know she was wearing one. I was just wondering if anyone else had the balls to do a temple session, while not wearing garments... Wish I had thought of it.
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Good morning! I know this might sound strange, but I just have to ask. I read a comment on here once from a gal, that said that in protest of the BS that the temple stands for, wore a lace thong in the temple while attending her sisters wedding ceremony. I thought this was hilarious and just wondered if anyone else has done the same thing.
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11 years ago
ddrakep
We're any of you a bishop or stake president in Utah when leaving the church?? Or does anyone know of someone in that situation?? I'm just curious how that process went being under the microscope of Utah...
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11 years ago
ddrakep
One thing that led me out was constant judgment from members towards people in our ward. One lady was disgusting. She would only associate with her "perfect" little friends. (oh the skeletons she had in her closet). She would throw a party in her yard for her neighborhood, and leave out anyone not active or members. Anyways, just one of many. One thing that pissed me off and was one of
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11 years ago
ddrakep
A guy at work today, was telling us about someone in his ward growing up, getting it on during church one Sunday. (teenagers at the time) got me thinking, has anyone had that awesome experience? Sounds fun to me.
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Has anyone else noticed the increasing trend of Mormon ladies showing off their "sacred" g's for all the world to see?? It seriously bugs the Hell out of me. When I was active and wore them, I always thought you we're supposed to protect them and not show them off. Lately it seems like everytime a Molly bends over, you can see half of their bottoms. This is such a double standard. If th
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Are there any sort of meetings or get togethers? I would love to attend. Is anyone near the marriott-slaterville area?
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11 years ago
ddrakep
Hello all. I've really enjoyed reading stories and advice on the forums here. Just wondering if anyone is from the Ogden Utah area??
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11 years ago
ddrakep
My question, is when did missionaries go into Africa. I've seen specials at conference time about how huge the church has gotten in Africa. If blacks couldn't have the priesthood, the success wouldn't be so great, would it??? I was just wondering if anyone knew. Thanks
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12 years ago
ddrakep
My wife has finally quit wearing her g's, and I couldn't be happier. What were others peoples thoughts when this happened to them? Love seeing how sexy she is again. They were so gross.
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12 years ago
ddrakep
Hello folks, I need some help or advice. Kind of stuck with what to do and wanted to see if someone else has had this same experience. My wife,kids, and I have been inactive for about 4 years. Occasionally going to church, but haven't been since first of 2010. Both wife and I have taken off our garments. Me 100% of the time and wife the majority of the time. My problem is this. We are expecting
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12 years ago
ddrakep
Has anyone ever had regrets at all during your process of leaving? I've been slowly exiting for the past couple of years. Really picking up the pace the last couple of months. The past week or so though, i've been having feelings of regret. Like I should go back or drop it all. It is easy to get past these feelings by just thinking about what I know now and what i've found out and believe, but it
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12 years ago
ddrakep
I live in Northern Utah, town of Ogden. Just wondering if anyone on here is from my town. If so, would love to chat about your own experiences. Also, does anyone know of a group or something to attend and discuss situations and difficulties with leaving. Hope someone else is from around my location.
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12 years ago
ddrakep
You talk about illegal alien missionaries. My wife's cousin here in Utah is engaged to a hispanic gal. Her entire family is here illegaly. She uses a fake SS#, but can't get a job since it doesn't match when the employer does the background check. Anyways, she served a mission to Iowa I think. I asked my wife's family how that could be if she was an illegal. They said that the church does not tak
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12 years ago
ddrakep
I appreciate everyones support so far in answering all my questions and issues with me wanting to leave and my wife not. I finally laid out all the issues the other day, proving the church a hoax and a scam. She basically said that it didn't matter and that things were just different back in the early days of the church. I just wish that she will one day see the truth that I see now. She does fin
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12 years ago
ddrakep
Hey everyone. I need some help and was wondering if any of you could help me. I need some advice. Let me give you some background. I was raised in the church, wife was not. We met, dated for 3 years and was married civily in 1998. In 2004, under some pressure from my family, we started attending church and went through the temple and sealed to our 2 kids. We continued to attend church for a coupl
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12 years ago
ddrakep
I had the best thought yesterday. It is somewhat summer here in Utah. It was almost 80 degrees and we were working outside. Just wearing a tank top as well as my wife. Kept thinking about how miserable it was before to be wearing the g's while sweating to death. It has also helped with our relationship in the bedroom. Although the wife still will wear hers every once in a while, It is the best fe
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12 years ago
ddrakep
a few weeks ago, I was on here and someone gave me a website to go to that explained questions about the church. It is run by members of the church and gives both sides of each topic. Would anyone happen to know this website? Thanks for the help
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12 years ago
ddrakep
Is there anyone who can explain to me the abreviations used here on the forum? I would love to know what each one stands for. Thank you friends.
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12 years ago
ddrakep
Thank you all for your thoughts. Could someone explain all the abbreviations used on here? Don't know what they stand for. Thanks.
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